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FAITH

Faith is believing in something before it happens. It is seeing something before it is

seen and it is an ABILITY to never surrender to fear. For example scientists say

that e breathe oxygen! e don"t see it but e #no it"s there because e #noho it feels hen e suffocate. $e believe ithout a doubt that e breathe

something. The same concept applies to %od yet not everybody believes. A man

and oman ho have faith in their relationship ill be more illing to trust! love

and surrender to each other. If the man and oman constantly fear losing each

other instead of having faith in their groth then they slo don the vibe and flo

and they can even &paralyses" the relationship. Fear means False 'xpectation

Appearing (eal! so hatever negative thoughts that you thin# could paralyses you.

Fear is defeated by Faith) A person ho has faith in overcoming any obstacle is the

person ho asn"t afraid of death but merely LI*'+ till the end. $ith faith youill not be fa,ed! ruffled or sha#ened by anything. A man and a oman ho

endures till the end is seen has having had a good life and they ill AL$AY- be

remembered.

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-elf1ontrol is -trength! (ight Thought is 2astery! almness is /oer 13ames

Allen! author of As A 2an Thin#eth Alays be laid bac# about everything! +on"t

overreact to anything! 0ever! ever suc# up)1 /layer community 2en respond to

hat they see so the discipline 4the ability5 there is to not get carried aay by hat

they see. $omen respond to hat they hear so the discipline 4ability5 there is not to

get carried aay by hat they hear. $omen are emotional by nature first. A man

must maintain control not to allo the emotions to get him emotional as ell. To

emotional people hold no logic. A man is logical by nature first 4note this ord5.

$hen he maintains control he can use his logic. -ometimes a oman 6ust ants to

lash out and release stress. It doesn"t mean she means hat she says or hat she

does 4body language and facial expressions ill reveal that5. 2en are one trac#

minded first. A oman must maintain control and understand that she must explain

her emotions to his logic. -he must not assume that he should #no. 'ach feelings

that she explains can then be dealt ith one at a time. A man reali,es! in entirety

ho his oman feels. $hen discipline is in a relationship! it brings security. $hen

security is felt! it brings ell1being and hen ell1being is maintained it brings a


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stronger connection and bond. The start of it all is communication hich enables

the first spar# of groth of it all. The overall discipline then is to maintain

communication so that ell1being through security can be felt.

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onfidence is li#e one of those birthday candles that has been lit and no matter

ho hard you try to blo it out! it 6ust #eeps lighting bac# up again. onfidence is

the sexiest thing you can ear. If you are earing rags it can ma#e you feel li#e

you are earing expensive clothing. It can even ma#e rags the ne &fashion".

onfidence can ma#e your ea#nesses seem strong. -elf1confidence is vital to

have because it validates your uni8ueness no matter hat people thin# of you. You

don"t need people"s validation and fran#ly you shouldn"t care because the

validation of yourself is enough. You are the only one ho is 8ualified to be you so

people"s validations or opinions about you really doesn"t matter. This does not

mean that you shouldn"t listen to feedbac#s! opinions and habits you can change. It

merely means that you are not you for other people but you are you to represent

you. onfidence is the light that never or should never go out. $hen a man

approaches a oman he gets points for 70FI+'0' and 79(A%'. A oman

ill hardly ever approach a man and some omen can"t do it. -o hen a man

approaches the oman his first steps toards her has already shon his confidence

and his courage. $hen the man reaches her! the man then has to clarify or confirm

his confidence through ords. The oman ill give him a chance because his

body language has already shon confidence and courage. The man"s main aim

from here is to lead the conversation in a ('-/'TF9L manner in order to vibe

and flo. Ho to generate confidence :5 (eali,e that you are the only one of your

#ind! e are all uni8ue) 0o fingerprint is ever the same 4not even in Tins5 so

there is no point loo#ing don on yourself. You are meant to represent! your name!

your life! your existence no matter hat other uni8ue person has something to say

about your uni8ueness. $e are all bound to clash ith certain people because that

is us going through a process of understanding a person"s uni8ueness. Bullies are

usually created because of their 6ealousy of an individual"s uni8ueness. ;5 (eali,ethat the true reflection is in the heart not in mirrors. $hat a person thin#s in their

heart is hat they become. If you thin# sad! you ill be sad! if you thin# happy!

you ill be happy and if you thin# confident! you ill be confident. There are

many different shapes and si,es mirrors out there hich ma#es us different shapes

and si,es hen they reflect bac# to us. These mirrors reflect but they don"t

*ALI+AT'. Allo the 2ost High to be your mirror.


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one life to live! asting it on not being confident is a aste of time. Life should be

about representing your livelihood not presenting your existence. =5 /retend to be

confident because your mind cannot tell the differences beteen reality and

dreams. It ta#es it all the same. /retend long enough and confidence ill be

instilled in you. >5 (eali,e that confidence! li#e everything else begins ithATTIT9+'. Have the right positive attitude and confidence ill also be seen. If

you sho confidence! the right positive attitude is seen. ?5 (eali,e that confidence

lights up the room. onfidence ma#es everybody ant to #no you and ma#es

everybody ant to catch that spirit of confidence from you. Let"s face it e admire

those ho sho confidence because they are good people to be around! therefore

you feel good. B' 70FI+'0T)

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ommunication is an '@HA0%' of ords! gestures! facial expressions and

body language. A man communicates better ith his ords and a oman

communicates better ith her body. If you thin# about it! this ma#es sense because

men respond to hat they see and omen respond to hat they hear. -o a man"s

greatest tool are his ords and a oman"s greatest tool is her body 4body

language5. -ome men hiss! call out at omen and ma#e vulgar remar#s 6ust to let

the oman #no that she is being chec#ed out. They use their ords but in the

rong ay. Truth be told! a oman may li#e the man from afar at first but hen he

does this rude display to get her attention she loses interest fast. The open body

language hich the man should have pic#ed up on soon becomes closed. To sum it

up real 8uic#! open body language is li#e hen someone is spreading their arms to

hug and closed body language is li#e hen someone is folding their arms. 7pen

body language is an invite! closed body language tells you to bac# off. The most

s#illful men could use their ords effectively to cause a oman"s closed body

language to be an open one. $hen a man does this rude display for her attention!

he automatically separates himself from the men ho have game to those hodoesn"t 4isn"t communication great5. 7n the other hand a man ill meet omen

hose body language are open but as soon as he approaches her! she 8uic#ly

becomes closed. $hen the man goes aay her body language becomes open again.

-uch omen are labelled coc#1teasers! hat they do is not a test but a game.

They too are considered rude. In order to fix these problems both men and omen

have to communicate to each other ith ('-/'T. (espect is the opposite of


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being rude. (espect is the #ey to all forms of communication. If respect is given it

is given bac# 4if it isn"t then you #no the person is rude by nature5. This principle

or#s ith all other characteristics in a relationship 4trust! loyalty! Love and so

on5. TH' A//(7AH $hen a man sees a oman he li#es! to things runs

through his mind! :5 Ho do I approach herC And ;5 $ill she li#e meC A man illpsyche himself up to try to generate confidence and courage so that he can

approach her. He may feel the nerves! go through the hat ifs! onder hat ould

be best thing to say 4he ants to say something so special and so magical that she

has to accept him5 and he ill even onder hy he is putting himself through the

hole situation. The man does too much thin#ing! till he overthin#s and then bac#s

don. 7pportunity lost. Let"s assess each 8uestionD H7$ +7 I A//(7AH

H'(C Before a man approaches he tries to psyche himself up because he fears

doing or saying anything to lose the oman. A man is not really afraid of

approaching but he"s real fear is losing the oman. That is the real reason as tohy he ill forget approaching her. By not approaching he ill alays maintain

that chance to approach because if he approaches and gets &re6ected" there is no

longer a chance but a verdict. 7#ay! here is hat all men need to reali,e before

they approach. That is TH'(' I- 07 -9H THI0% A- ('3'TI70- 39-T

F''+BAE-. There are to things that a man needs to say to himself before

approaching! :5 I am going to approach this oman to exchange ords ith her

and get feedbac# from her. ;5 I ill not give myself feedbac#s for her! she ill

have to do it for herself. These sort of affirmations defeat the fear of losing

because really and truly a oman 6ust li#e parents! doctors! mentors and teachers

give feedbac#s. If there is such a thing as re6ection! I doubt that a person ould

never ant to communicate ith their parents again all because they said no.

/eople ould not need a second opinion from another doctor in fear of being

&re6ected" again and nobody ould ever attend classes all because of the F grade

that they got for not putting effort into the or#. 'verything is about

F''+BAE- not re6ection. It is the system that has labelled it re6ection in terms

of men and omen interaction. (e6ection refers more to things than people. For

example you can re6ect having an in6ection! going to school! staying inside but you

can get feedbac#s from doctors about the in6ection and feedbac#s from parents as

to hy it is a good thing to go to school and stay indoors. A man may L'A+ the

approach but the hole approach is a to ay process. /eople thin# it is a one

sided thing all because the man approaches. 0o this is so not true. The approach

scenario is an exchange. The man I0ITIAT'- and the oman gives F''+BAE!

then ith the feedbac# that the man receives! he gives he"s feedbac#. In giving


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bac# his feedbac# the man should be tactful but regardless of the feedbac#s they

are no caught up in communication. -ome omen ill be rude ith their

feedbac#s but it is a feedbac# nonetheless. A man should maintain his cool 4his

leadership5 about the hole transaction. Through his coolness and tact! a oman

may apologies but no matter hat! through his coolness he ill alays pass hertest. The Approach -o the man goes off to get his feedbac# but the big aim is to get

the feedbac# that he can or# ith. -o no it is time to use his ords. The most

important things about the ordings are not the sentences or even the ords

themselves but it is all about -TAT'2'0T-. There are three types of statements!

:5 The &$'" statements! ;5 The &Y79" statements and


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>5 I anted to come over and say hi. G0ote that this may get some omen intrigued

but it is not really effective. ombining these &I" statements ith &e" and &you"

statements ould ma#e it effective. For exampleD :5 Y79 #no Y79 are loo#ing

good today so don"t be suprised about me initiating this introduction. ;5 Hey

Afternoon! give me a moment of your time! for 9- 4another &e" ord5 to discusshere Y79 got that 6ac#et from.


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your attention focused on something! the easier it becomes for you to continue to

focus upon it because you are attracting! through the La of Attraction! other

thoughts or vibrations that are the essence of the thought you began ith. $ithin

:J seconds of focusing on something! a matching vibration becomes activated. And

no! as that focus becomes stronger and the vibration becomes clearer! the La ofAttraction ill bring to you more thoughts that match. At this point! the vibration

ill not have much attraction poer! but if you maintain your focus longer! the

poer of the vibration ill become further1reaching. And if you manage to stay

purely focused upon any thought for as little as ?K seconds! the vibration is

poerful enough that its manifestation begins. -o yes if you focus on something

for :J seconds onards the vibrations of the orld starts to vibrate to match the

vibrations of your thoughts. This may sound farfetched but you have to reali,e that

everything in this life vibrates. -olid to Li8uid to %as occurs through vibrations.

For us to hear! see! and tal# occurs through vibrations. For the heart to pump bloodoccurs through vibrations! '*'(YTHI0% vibrates! even our thoughts. After :J

seconds of thin#ing if your thoughts are still on your tas# for ?K seconds! your

thoughts starts to become real 4it starts to manifest5. Your sub conscious mind

4reative 2echanism5! your environment and the people you meet 4your hole

orld basically5 starts to provide the resources and data for your thoughts

4internal5 to become real 4external5. It is said in /roverbs chapter ;

As a man thin#eth in his heart! so is he. GBe careful hat you focus on. A good

pastor ho focuses on %od ill soon touch the spiritual realm to be able to heal

people. They ill receive the gift of the spirits! hence hy %od said see# the

#ingdom first and everything else shall be added on to you. A man ho focuses on

his family ill be able to better himself for his family and he ill be enable to

better his family for the orld. His oman ill respect him and ill submit to his

focus because he becomes a good leader. A doctor ho focuses on their patience

ill be able to see the problem before it is called out. A person ho focuses on

hat other people thin#! ho focuses on 6ealousy and envy! ho focuses on anger

only affect themselves in a negative ay. Thin# of it li#e this! in the film &Hul#"!

Hul# is anger that has been &focused" on by +avid Banner. In order to #eep the

beast aay he F79-'- on something else 4he focuses on controlling his anger5.

That is hat university and studying is all about. It is about focusing all your

thoughts on the topic you ant to #no about. The difference beteen a genius

and an &average" person is the attention span 4ho long they focus on something5.

A person ho focuses long enough turns L'A+ 4himself and his surroundings5


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into %7L+ 4valuable! useful and helpful5. To conclude you become and create

hat you thin# and pay attention to.

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Leadership is influence! nothing more! nothing less. $hen a man and a oman li#eeach other from afar! omen expect the man to ma#e the first move. They ant the

man to L'A+ them into conversation and influence them to go ith them by

leading them into a comfort ,one in order to vibe and flo. A oman ould have

ta#en care of her appearance #noing that men respond to hat they see. After

ta#ing care of her appearance all she feels she needs to do is position herself to be

led. There are some omen claiming that they are Independent and they don"t need

a man. Although this may be true! these omen have to reali,e that hen they fall

in love ith a man! it is the leadership that they fall in love ith. -o hen a man

shos leadership it"s more than li#ely that they ill fall in love ith him anyays

4no matter ho independent they claim to be5. If the leadership 8uality is not there

in a relationship then problems may arise. A oman ants to be led by a man and a

man ants to be able to try. In both cases there has to be respect or there"s no point

going through the process. (espect allos a man and oman not to cross the lines.

A man feels more at ease ith himself hen he leads because he is exercising his

primary nature of being a man and that is being the head of the relationship. Let"s

examine the head a minute on the head the eyes are used for direction 4to see

here you are going5 and to see and avoid danger. This does not 8ualify the man as

the leader! after all omen have eyes to but by nature a man exercises L7%I first

before his emotions. By nature a oman is '27TI70AL first before she reaches

logic. It is the logical nature that 8ualifies the man to ta#e leadership in the

relationship. Logic is an element that enables anybody to assess a situation from

different viepoints. 'motions are used to express ho a person feels about a

situation. 'motions can be unstable and therefore lead to confusion. 2en and

omen have both logic and emotion but they have one more than the other FI(-T.

Being that the man is a logical creature! presumably he ill be able to assess a

situation more 8uic#ly. Because men are logical creatures it is logical that a man bethe H'A+ in a relationship. In a relationship his logic ill allo him to be able to

change direction more 8uic#ly and it ill allo him to avoid danger more 8uic#ly.

If a man must ta#e a stand in terms of danger then he uses his strength to protect or

defend himself and his family. I am not saying that omen can"t change direction

or avoid danger! I"m merely saying it seems that they are not faster at doing it than

a man because of their emotional nature. A oman is the H'A(T of a relationship.


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Her role is to manage everything else as the man leads. In order to accept her roles

and allo her man to lead she must -9B2IT. -ubmission does not mean

dominance! sacrifice or loss of individuality! it merely means security and

confidence in alloing her man to execute his roles ithout her having to orry

that he can"t do it. Her role is to manage and she shouldn"t have to orry aboutleading to! all she needs to do is supply. A oman loses respect for a man 4head5

ho tries to follo her 4the heart5 because hen a man follos her he gives up his

role to her. $hen a man gives up his role to a oman she is &forced" to lead. 0o

not only does she have her roles to ta#e care of but no she has this additional role

because the man has shon that he can"t &handle" his role! all because he claims he

is in love. Being in love doesn"t mean you stop fulfilling your duty as a man. $hen

a man stops performing his duty or roles he loses the respect of everybody not 6ust

the oman"s respect. -o in order for the oman to submit she ill put a man

through tests. -he ill test his 8uality as a leader and as a man. Her emotions tellsher that she has to! her emotions tells her that she needs to. In the scriptures it as

Mueen -heba of -alem that came to -olomon to as# 4test5 him 8uestions upon

8uestions for him to anser. He ansered them all. This then folloed ith her

complimenting him and shoering him ith praise. 0ote that she had already seen

his palace! she already heard of his riches N ealth and she already #ne he as

#ing but hen -olomon /(7*'+ himself as a leader 4a #ing5 she as convinced

that all he had as truly ell deserved. At this point I truly believe that if -olomon

had as# for her hand in marriage! she ould have accepted. -olomon had JOO

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order to get things done. The love provides the illingness to do so. The respect

allos them to ant to do it ell. A leader has to be TATF9L hen dealing ith

his oman. Been tactful #eeps the oman"s emotions under &control". 3ust because

she has submitted to the man does not mean that the man has to act or treat her li#e

submission is hat she is supposed to do 4remember that a oman submits hen aman has proved himself orthy of submission5. If a man expect submission

ithout proving himself orthy of it! his oman may end up losing respect for

him. $hen a man says no he has no right to say it anyho. %ranted the man may

get angry at times but it is best for the man to express his apologi,es 4emotions5 to

sho that he didn"t mean to say hat he did or do hat he did 4this is hard because

men are logical creatures not emotional ones5. Tactfulness ma#es all the difference

beteen a oman anting to do something for the man and being resentful hile

doing it. For example a man 4leader5 ho is not tactful ith his oman may have

food but a man 4leader5 ho is tactful to his oman $ILL alays have -79Lfood 4she ill put her heart into the coo#ing because she ants to ma#e sure that

her man is feed right5. Boo#s by 3ohn 2axell"s best describes the las that a

leader must follo in order to be folloed. Another boo# by 3ohn 2axell best

describes the 8ualities that a leader must have in order to be recogni,ed as a leader.

The Las of Leaderships are described in his boo# &The ;: Irrefutable Las of

Leadership1Follo Them and /eople $ill Follo You". $or#ing on these Las

ill allo people 4not 6ust omen5 to follo you. The Las are as follosD :5 The

La of the Lid ;5 The La of Influence 5 The La of '.F. Hutton ?5 The La of -olid %round J5 The La of

(espect K5 The La of Intuition P5 The La of 2agnetism :O5 The La of

onnection ::5 The La of the Inner ircle :;5 The La of 'mpoerment :5 The La of *ictory :?5 The

La of the Big 2o :J5 The La of /riorities :K5 The La of -acrifice :P5 The

La of Timing ;O5 The La of 'xplosive %roth ;:5 The La of Legacy The

Mualities of Leadership are best described in 3ohn 2axell"s boo# &The ;:

Indispensable Mualities 7f A Leader1 Becoming the person 7thers ill $ant to

Follo". Having these 8ualities ill ma#e you recogni,ed as a leader to be

folloed. The 8ualities are as follos. :5 haracter ;5 harisma 5 ompetence ?5 ourage J5 +iscernment K5 Focus P5 %enerosity

:O5Initiative ::5Listening :;5/assion :5(elationships :?5(esponsibility :J5-ecurity :K5-elf1+iscipline :P5-ervant

hood ;O5Teach ability ;:5*ision $hen a man or#s on these characteristics he


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becomes a leader. $hen a leader leads and continues to exercise these

characteristics he ill alays be folloed.

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/ersistence is the ability to never give up no matter ho big the obstacles are. It is

to ta#e a -TA0+ even hen you are experiencing self1doubt! fear and disbelief.

/ersistence is in never giving up but eventually finding a ay 4a ea#ness5 to

defeat the obstacle. In the Hac#er"s ommunity they have this mottoD To follo the

path you have to loo# to the 2aster Follo the 2aster $al# beside the 2aster

-ee through the 2aster Become the 2aster. This motto explains persistence. A

master 4obstacle5 may be bigger than you at first but if you #eep enduring you

learn ne things about the obstacle 42aster5 hich enables you to see the

ea#ness of the obstacle 42aster5 and surpass it. -tic#ing to something ill soon

let you be greater than the obstacle. $henever fear #noc#s you should anser ith

FAITH. The devil uses fear! %od responds to faith. $henever there is doubt you

should use courage. +orothy Bernard once said that courage is fear that has said its

prayers. -o if your fears have also &prayed" then there is no fear. Another

explanation about persistence can also be understood from a poem that LL ool 3"s

grandma use to tell him! it goes $hen a tas# is once begun +o it until it"s done

Be my labor! great or small +o it ell or not at all. -ee it li#e this! if you #eep

hitting a all in the same place for days! months or years! that all ill eventually

collapse. The hitting is the persistence. /ersistence alays leads to success. In

terms of men and omen In terms of men and omen! persistence is not about the

chasing. A man feels that he has to chase a oman until he &ears" her out and a

oman feels she has to run to give the man the chase 4a challenge5. Both men and

omen claim that they li#e the challenge but the truth of the matter is ith chasing

there is a lot of time asted not connecting. The bond that should have been

created and maintained from the beginning is not created because both man and

oman are running aay from each other to ma#e the definition of chasecomplete. /ersistence beteen a men a oman is in $7(+- 4communication5.

For exampleD 2anD Hey afternoon! you #no I got to say nice outfit 4says it hile

smiling5. $omanD Than# you. 2anD Yeah for real! do you or# outC $omanD A

little. 2anD Yeah it shos! guess that"s hy you feel comfortable earing the

outfit...lol $omanD Yeahlol. 2anD -o listen! you #no it"s not about #eeping

you! let"s exchange numbers so that e can continue this later on. $omanD I don"t


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give out my number sorry. 2anD Your apology is accepted so ta#e my number

instead. Here! call me hen you feel li#e ma#ing a ne friend. $omanD I"m not

going to call. I got enough friends already. 2anD That"s cute and damn near

adorable! it felt good exchanging ords ith you Gsay name $omanD Yeah ta#e

care. 2anD 9h huh! stay cute..lol /ersistence is alays having something to say.A man or oman should not use rudeness or angry tones but they should use tact.

A man should lead the conversation to the end no matter hich ay it goes. 0ot

bac#ing don no matter hat feedbac# the oman gives him shos his strength

and through this persistence the oman is li#ely to be /'(-9A+'+ to give the

man a chance. There is no &running" involved 6ust continuation of ords till a

connection is established. For example! the above example could goD $omanD

$ait! hat did you say your name as againC 2anD Gsays name $omanD I"m sorry

about the attitude I put on earlier! I"m not really li#e that. It"s 6ust that a lot of guys

aren"t serious so a oman needs to act that ay sometimes. 2anD I understand!hope you #no that I didn"t do that to aste your time. $omanD %ood to

#no.lol.Ta#e my number as ell! call me hen you feel li#e it. 2anD uh huh!

you #no I ill.lol. $omanD Ta#e care. 2anD Ta#e care Qsays her name hile

smiling.

('-/'T N A'/TA0'

(espect has to be before acceptance. 'very man ants respect and every oman

ants acceptance. $omen ant respect to but the feeling of acceptance seems

4note this ord5 to relax them more. Thin# about it! omen put on ma#eup!

6eelries! fa#e hair 6ust to see# attention in order to have that feeling of acceptance

hen they get it. In a man"s case he has ego and pride that can easily be affected by

disrespect 4he feels less than a man5. A man does ant to be accepted but it is a

better feeling hen a oman does nothing to diminish his manhood! this translate

to him as been supportive through respect. The oman in her supportive ays has

to be careful not to put her man don. It is best to be positive even hen her manis rong. In other ords! nagging and insults only ma#e things orse. A oman

should be capable to sit her man don or use her feminine ays and get her point

across. $hen both respect each other! both the man and oman feel accepted. But

to a man respect is an ego boost! he on"t feel li#e a al# over or li#e his oman

is the one earing the pants in the relationship. For a oman acceptance is her ego

boost! she feels beautiful all the time. Her man accepting her ma#es her feel


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special. -he ill not need to feel insecure unless her man doesn"t ma#e her feel

accepted. 'verything is in the feeling. Ho to respect :5 'xercising manners.

Anything that shos an art of appreciation. ;5 ontrolling your emotions.

'motions are the biggest brea# up in a relationship. Anger! hate! grudges can all

create misunderstandings and misunderstandings creates assumptions.Assumptions further the man and oman apart especially hen it is been fuelled

by friends and family. Assumptions creates insecurities. The relationship suffers.

The best thing to do is for both partners to communicate their problems. This

eliminates all the obstacles causing the problems by clearing up

misunderstandings. A simple Baby! let"s clear this up. +on"t ant to fight you. is

better than shouting mad saying it"s all your fault. Ho to accept :5 don"t focus

on ho you are going to change your partner but focus on ho to appreciate hat

you have. Through this a person is illing to change to further that appreciation. ;5

A relationship is mostly about groth 4the minimal percentage is commitment5. Arelationship must be &atered" ith communication! loyalty! trust and respect. This

ill ma#e a man and a oman feel accepted. They ill gro)

(IH A0+ $'ALTHY

A large group of people end up in university after schooling all their life. They

eventually graduate and end up in a career. Then there is another group ho did not

really go to university but they get a 6ob and climb the ladder or they 6ust go into

internship ith a company. They to have their career. The only difference beteen

the to is the money that they are getting paid. They all do the P to >Rs and they all

or# for someone else. Time and time again! e are shon that having a career

has 0'*'( truly got anyone rich or ealthy. Having a career has proved that one

can be ell off or close to riches but it does not ma#e you rich or ealthy. The only

people ho are rich and ealthy are those that on the company here those hohave graduated or those ho haven"t graduated or# for them. A career is not a

bad thing but it should be used to build your on 2I--I70. A mission is

something that you F''L to do in order to state your mar# in this orld. It is hat

you -T(I*' to do in order to get rich or ealthy hile benefiting man#ind. Yet

almost everyone stay in a career or#ing day in and day out hoping that one day it

ill ma#e them rich or ealthy. All those ho have a career often stay that ay for


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life but hen they understand that a career is 6ust an AI+ to build their mission

surprisingly

They climb up the ladder in the company 8uic#ly. They start creating ne effective

ideas for the company! therefore proving valuable for the company. A large

percentage of the population don"t even have a mission and because of this they

continue to as# or 8uestion hat their purpose is in the orld. 2any people ould

never pursue their desires because they are afraid to step out of conformity and

because it has too many ris#s. -uch people #no ho the system or#s but they

can"t 4and even refuse to5 9-' the system in order to get rich or ealthy. Those

ho are not illing to conform have proven that in order to get rich or ealthy! a

person ill have to ('AT'. reation is man#ind"s ordained right and it is

man#ind"s path to becoming rich or ealthy. It had been ordained in %enesis h. :!

verse ;K hen it statesD Then %od blessed them and said! Be fruitful and multiply.

Fill the earth and govern it. (eign over the fish in the sea! the birds in the s#y! and

all the animals that scurry along the ground. If the mission is to create then riches

and ealth are not far. 0ote that to be rich or ealthy is not to be obsessive

4although most people ould argue that it is5 but to #no hat you ant instead of

6ust going ith the flo of the system 4conforming5. There is a big uneasy feeling

hen a person steps out of conformity because the feeling is li#e everybody is

against you because &you did something rong". 2any people go to university and

do the hole schooling system to please their parents and basically to 6ust go ith

the flo of ho life is. $hen a person thin#s of education! they thin# of a bigbuilding ith many teachers ho teach different sub6ects. This hole concept has

been instilled into everyone at a young age! so much so that e forget that life!

experiences and failures are education themselves. $hen a person fails in this

building of education called university! they thin# it is the end of the orld not

#noing that all they are learning ill only be used to help someone stay rich and

ealthy by having a 6ob or career in a company that they have ('AT'+. This is

not to say that or#ing in a company is bad! after all or#ing as a team ma#es you

rich and ealthy 4doing it all by yourself is not a smart move! you ill alays need

people5. In a film called &A Bronx Tale" hich as directed by (obert +e 0iro andbased on a true story! there is a scene here -onny 4the 2obb Boss5 says &There

are to types of smarts! street smarts and school smarts". This is so very true! a

person may have the boo# smarts but don"t #no ho to read people in the streets.

They are unaare of hat goes on around them. -uch people are really confined

ithin the four alls of an institution. A person may have street smarts but ithout


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boo# smarts he ill be limited. Life is an education! an institution educates but it

doesn"t mean outside of the institution one stops learning. A person ho comes out

of university ith a lo grade merely proves that they loss the passion for the

sub6ect they ent in to learn. It doesn"t mean that they are a failure! it 6ust shos

that they didn"t ant or put enough effort in to do better. They loss passion.Anybody can pass any course if they ere truly interested in it 6ust li#e anyone can

get rich and ealthy if they are illing to create. To create means bringing

something ne into the orld. I am not saying that going to university doesn"t help

your chances to get rich or ealthy. I am not even saying that going to university is

a aste of time. $hat I am saying is university does not teach you ho to get rich

or ealthy! it 6ust teaches you ho to or# for someone else. 0o granted that

hen you get promoted ithin the company you get more money but more money

6ust means more or# and no time to en6oy. reation has to be involved. There are

more people ho never ent to school or graduated from university than thoseho graduated. $here to start :5 it seems li#e the internet is going to get even

more advanced in the future. If you don"t #no already! the internet is a mar#et

device! '*'(YB7+Y ants it! everybody goes on it and everybody seems to

need it! so creating something on the net and advertising it is not a bad idea at all.

(emember some of the tools to use to create ebsites! blogs! and chats and so on

are free. ;5 I read one time that people buy boo#s online than anything else 4second

comes clothing5. $riting a boo# and displaying it on Ama,on through publishing

site such as .lulu.com or .createspace.com is helpful. I have spo#en to a

fe people ho have used these sites for publishing.


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information but the boo# tells you ho to properly use them in order to become

rich or ealthy. There are a L7T more ebsites in the boo#. ;5 Thin# and %ro

(ich by 0apolean Hill %ives :< /rinciples 4step by step guide5 on ho to get rich.

This boo# is very detailed! you ill get a L7T of ideas from this boo#. The :

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