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    FROM

    THE

    TOTHE

    BASEMENTBASEMENT

    BEDROOMBEDROOM

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    ABOUT ME

    MPUA

    Teach seminars forwww.seduction.bizwww.seduction.biz

    Certified Tantra Educator (CTE) Master NLP Trainer

    CISA

    CISSP

    others

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    NOT ENOUGH TIME FORNOT ENOUGH TIME FORFANCY MAPSFANCY MAPS

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    THE METHOD

    Pre-Open

    Opening

    Creating Attraction

    Running PatternsCooking breakfast

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    Forget all the background lets PARTY

    PRE OPENING

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    WHERE TO GO?

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    HOW DOES SOMEONE LIKE ME GET ALL THESE

    WOMEN????

    There is a Methodology

    It Is Constantly Evolving

    I Take chances

    I am Open to failure

    I choose Happiness

    I am sexy

    I have an accent

    I know that we are all the same

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    SAMENESS

    We all breatheWe all breathe

    We all are made of skin bones muscleWe all are made of skin bones muscle

    We ALL have feelingsWe ALL have feelings

    We all have desiresW

    e all have desires We all have a past and a futureWe all have a past and a future

    We work (in one way or another)We work (in one way or another)

    We EatWe Eat

    We laughWe laugh

    We cryWe cry

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    OWN YOUR ROLE. BE THE PERSONOWN YOUR ROLE. BE THE PERSON

    DONT TRYDONT TRY

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    COMMONALITIES

    Women believe they are not photogenic

    Prefer Baths not showers

    Believe to be better kissers than partner

    Think they have their mothers eyes Prefer sensitive partners

    Self Conscious

    Hang Ups on Old Lovers

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    ASSESSMENT LOOK AT THEM

    Extended eye contactExtended eye contact

    Leg crossing positionLeg crossing position

    (blocking or open)(blocking or open)

    Hands in view orHands in view or hiddedhidded

    Rubbing of the neckRubbing of the neck

    Heated neck / chest areaHeated neck / chest area Head tiltingHead tilting

    Hair strokingHair stroking

    Feet pointing in yourFeet pointing in your

    directiondirection

    Ambiguous touchesAmbiguous touches

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    PREPARE TO TAKE RISKS AND LEARN

    THROUGH FAILURE

    -You can't win if you don't play the game and approach.

    -You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

    -Not approaching and opening is the reason most guys get

    less action than any other issue.

    -Open because it shows your confident.

    -Even if you get rejected you have a funny story to tell later

    on so who cares.

    -Enjoy life to the max as it is short.

    -Like most things in life you will only get out what you haveput in and if things aren't working out for you as you are

    then you must be honest with yourself and modify your

    techniques.

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    THE OPENINGIts time to GO GO GO

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    PICK SOMEONE WHO WILL BE INVOLVED

    Screening in language patterns

    Some will be open.. Some wont

    If you have to do all the talking u will always do that

    If not , they play along and make it fun

    Mmake a list of what u want

    Emotional qualities. Sharp i,sexual, interactive,adventureous,giving

    Process language

    Fight flight fuck feed

    Emotional

    Levels

    Get it done,

    social programming ( what does oprah think wwjd),

    illusion of choice (not my type)

    * they compare past- check body for arousal

    Exploration/ possibilities

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    A BASIC OPENER

    HIHI

    Mirroring (nonverbal play)Mirroring (nonverbal play)

    Time constraintsTime constraints

    HonestyHonesty

    Agreement FramesAgreement Frames ConverationConveration StarterStarter

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    DONT WORRY ABOUT THEM SHUTTING YOU DOWN. WE GOT

    U COVERED!

    Ive got a boyfriend

    Attraction replayAttraction replay

    Challenge replayChallenge replay

    Humor/presetHumor/preset

    TherapistTherapist

    The Logic BOMB:The Logic BOMB: Well,IfWell,If somedaysomeday...you decide that your...you decide that your

    boyfriend is not with you in the way that you TRULY wantboyfriend is not with you in the way that you TRULY wanthim to be....we owe it to our selves to talk... hand #him to be....we owe it to our selves to talk... hand #

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    CREATING ATTRACTION

    Starting the fire

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    CREATING FEELINGS/STATES

    The major feelings that most people WANT to experience

    Trust

    Lust

    Fascination

    Fun

    Challenge

    Connection

    Intrigue

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    OWN YOUR IDEAS/FEELINGS

    #1 EASY way to create those feelings

    Being honest (speaking MY TRUTH) is more

    important to me than getting into your pants

    This shows off your standards

    You are a challenge

    You have confidence

    And a peek into your honesty

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    TOPICS TO LEAD TO THOSE FEELINGS

    Interpersonal Connections

    Positive experiences

    Challenges

    Connection with nature/environment

    Where is your favorite place to visit,why, and specifics

    Intrapersonal connections

    How we interact with the world around us

    Vocal people watching game

    Leading in convo for feeling

    *If you can chart /graph /report /resume /business report

    IT WIL NOT GET YOU LAID!

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    RUNNING PATTERNSWait a sec.. Theres a script for this?

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    INDULGENCE, ESCAPE, FANTASY, ADVENTURE

    Vacations

    Imaginations (if you could go somewhere where no one knew you and nothing

    would ever leave that place. Where would u go..what would u do and etc..

    * no answer.. And then led * I would like to and implant suggestions

    *answer ..

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    GAMES, QUIZZES,TEST, DEMOS

    Cube,Cube, sanpquizsanpquiz, twin brothers, SRT,, twin brothers, SRT,

    PoemsPoems

    DemosDemos

    JokesJokes

    Roller folder orRoller folder or tossertosser.. Like is u were.. Like is u were gonnagonna go ongo onyour dream vacation and you had to pack rightyour dream vacation and you had to pack rightnow.. . How would u packnow.. . How would u pack

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    BEING DIDACTIC

    Teaching.Teaching.

    about work.. What u do . Etc.about work.. What u do . Etc.

    Learn about people.. How they learn about peopleLearn about people.. How they learn about people(learning styles game)(learning styles game)

    Animal = learning styleAnimal = learning style

    What was your favorite candy discuss

    What was your favorite candy discusswant/need/want/need/persuitpersuit of joyof joy

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    SEX

    Whats the qualities of a good kisser

    Walk me through a feeling

    Tell me about a topic that is related

    If They bring it up FIRST they are a

    tease, bounce

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    EMBEDDING COMMANDS

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    PRECANNED PATTERNS

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    BLOWJOB/CHOCOLATE PATTERN

    You know, I think its so interesting how people connect with their hopes and their desires and their

    daydreams, right? ... I was reading this article the other day about compulsions and it got me to thinkingabout the difference between compulsion and anticipation.

    I mean, have you ever come home from a hard day of work and the boss was a jerk and kept piling the papersup on you desk and its like all you can think of is dropping your clothes and getting into that steamy hot bathor shower.

    Its like before you even step in you can already feel that heat working its way through every muscle in yourbody and all your frustrations just drop away and all you can feel is the pleasure of that warmth just shootingthrough every part of you.

    And then there's that moment of sliding in where you really let that pleasure take you and it just feels greatdoesn't it?

    Yeah well, do you like chocolate? (Or is there a food that when you see it you absolutely have to put it in yourmouth?). I mean, can you stop and remember a time when you saw a piece of chocolate and your mouth isalready tasting it before you even put it in, and you can already taste that sweetness against your tongue andyou can feel the special rich texture of it against your tongue as well. You know that texture that really goodchocolate has.

    And then there's that moment, that moment when the first molecule of chocolate touches your tongue and

    you know it's inside your mouth and you just want to keep it there because it's so rich and so good. Andthere's that extra special warmth when you swallow that sweetness down.

    Or then maybe, you know like sometimes you meet someone and you're really attracted to them and you bothknow it and there's that moment when your eyes lock, it's that special look just before you kiss, just beforeyou do it the very first time and you're trembling with anticipation and your heart is pounding because you'rethinking about how good it's going to be.

    It's like every physical moment of that relationship is enfolded/contained or rolled into that first touch of thelips and there's that excitement, with that first soft contact of the lips where you don't even know if you aretouching or not but then, oh man, it's like a jolt of electricity all through you.

    (See I think what happens is the conscious mind goes down into the subconscious and brings back up all

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    HaHa..HA. laid

    JOKE PATTERNS

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    ITS NOT THE END

    You have to listen

    Be attentive

    PAY ATTENTION

    Have GENUINE interest

    Dont get caught up in your own language success

    Get Kino with it

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    NOWWHAT

    You are most likely stuck Many-Most of you will not use this stuff untill

    you KNOW it works.

    Taking the risk on uncertainty WILL be yourinternal power and confidence

    Dont be afraid of touching.. Its gonna happen

    Remember these Trojans PREVENT VIRUSES!

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    Stop waking up to your CURRENTStop waking up to your CURRENT

    girlfriendgirlfriend

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    and START waking up to this and START waking up to this

    oneone

    Then tell her to go home becauseThen tell her to go home because

    your other girl is coming over ;)your other girl is coming over ;)

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    WannaWanna stop feeling like thisstop feeling like this

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    And START feeling like THISAnd START feeling like THIS

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    Ask me for the zips

    Ross Jefries

    Neil Strauss

    Mystery

    Style

    Many others

    GO READ UP GAME UP.. N GET IT ON!

    Peoplewho write about this stuff Sites to check out for Sets/b

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