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8/6/2019 Attitude Behaviour Thinking

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How to StayPOSI+IVEin a

TOUGH Work Environment


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The Environment

YOU

Beware theBullets!

Negative WorkEnvironment

PastExperiences

Ouch!


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- Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead

- No one appreciates your contributions

- Too much work . . . not enough help- Deadlines are unrealistic

- Longer hours . . . additional work

- Budget Constraints

- Competition is eating us alive- Poor management / direction

- Job insecurity

Negative WorkEnvironment


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Other PeoplesBehavior

Bulldozers

Snipers

Exploders

ClamsClams

Patronizers

Complainers

Controllers

Backstabber

sWalking Wounded

Negatives

Gossip

s

Brown NosersSluffers

Whiners


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CHANGE . . .

Challenges ourparadigms

Alters the way we think

Makes life more difficult

for a while

Causes Stress

Is an ongoing fact of life

ChangingEnvironment

The only person who always

likes changeis a wet baby


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PastExperiences

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch! Ouch!


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Media Frenzy

NegativeWorld View

A recent Statistic:

Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%,

Look at what you are looking at !!!


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GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me.(Inherited traits)

PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me.(Upbringing)

ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss,the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing thisto me. (Surroundings)

DeterminismTheory


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Are some people just bornpositive

thinkers. . . oris it their CHOICE?

Lifes Little Question


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Choose the Right Luggage


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Youregoingto get hit!

The Problem With Dodging

Bullets


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Choice #2WearBulletproof Armor


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Bulletproof ArmorComes from

SELF CHANGESELF CHANGE


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Putting on the

Armor


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How to Change Your Attitude

ATTITUDEATTITUDE

ATTITUDEATTITUDE

Changes happenpersonally

from the

INSIDE OUT!


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I am responsible . . .

. . . for who I am

. . . for what I have

. . . for what I do

So . . . Accept Responsibility


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Negativeworld view

YOU

FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT!ATTITUDEATTITUDE

Step #2 Take Control


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How to Change Your Thinking

THINKINGTHINKING

Changes comefrom observing

logicallyin

every situation


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Observe Your Thinking

THINKING

This is all veryinteresting

Tomorrow it willlook very different.


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This is going to bea wonderful day!

This is going to

be a crappy day!

Manage Your Self-TalkIf you think you Can, or you think you Cant

YOURE RIGHT! Henry Ford

THINKING


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How to Change YourBehavior

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR

Changes take

true assessment,determination &discipline


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Choose YourBehavior

REACTIVE

Response

RESPONSIBLE

MyResponse

MyChoice

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR

Stimulus

Stimulus


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Steps Toward Changing

Behavior

1. Unconscious Incompetence

2. Conscience Incompetence

3. Conscience Competence

4. Unconscious Competence

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR

The New YOU!The New YOU!


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Add POSI+IVE BehaviorINFLUENCE YOURENVIRONMENT!

Sprinkle some positive on the negatives

Focus on the good of each day

Stay out of the feeding frenzies

Say please and thank you

Practice EMPATHY

Evaluate YOURbehavior

Never miss an opportunity to complement

Spread a SMILE around

Replace theBAD HABITS!

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR


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More POSI+IVE Contributions

1. Is it true?

2. Is it harmful?

3. Is it necessary?

Keep promises

Have a forgiving view of people

Keep an open mind with changes

Count to 1000 if necessary See criticism as opportunity to improve

Cultivate your sense of humor

Before you say anything to anyone, ask

yourself three things


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Watch your definitions -they become thoughtsthey become thoughts

Watch your thoughts -

they become wordsthey become wordsWatch your words -they become actionsthey become actions

Watch your actions -they become your destinythey become your destiny

Remember to . . .


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The Choice is YOURS

With a Bad attitude

you can never have a positive day

With a Positive attitude

you can never have a bad day


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Choose POSI+IVE Living

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