by mr. jordi blanco school counsellor anti-bullying presentation
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By Mr. Jordi BlancoSchool Counsellor
Anti-bullying presentation
Agenda
• Definition of Bullying • Types of Bullying• Facts about Bullying• Effects of Bullying• Dynamics about bullying• Exercise: True Vs False• Video
Definition
Bullying is when a person or group tries to harm someone who is weaker or who they think is weaker. It can be direct attacks such as hitting, name calling, teasing or taunting. It can be indirect, like spreading rumors or trying to make others reject someone.
Bullying can be either physical or psychological
A bully can hurt someone physically or he/she can hurt someone’s feelings
Bullying usually happens more than once
What is BULLYING?
Types of Bullying
1.Verbal
2. Social
3. Physical
4. Cyber bullying
Cyber Bullying We usually see this in teenage films wherein the main character,
typically a demure type, is excluded from groups
by pompous girls
Physical bullying Although usually portrayed
as the most common type in the movies, it only comes second to verbal bullying.
Any aggressive hitting, pulling or shoving is
classified under this type.
Types of bullying
Verbal bullying
This is the most common type. It includes name-
calling, offensive remarks or consistently making the person the butt of jokes.
Social Any type of social threat
with the purpose of making the victim give in to the
bully’s demands is considered under this
category.
What does BULLYING look like?
Leaving someone out
Spreading
rumors
Teasing
What does BULLYING look like?
Hitting, kicking,
punching, pushing, tripping
Name-calling
Making threats
What does BULLYING look like?
Mean notes, emails,
text messages,
IMs
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Facts on bullying
• Between 15% to 30% of students are bullies or victims• The American Medical Association conducted that 3.2
Million kids from grades 6 to 10 are victims of moderate or serious bullying
• From 1994 to 1999, they have been 253 violent deaths in schools.
Bullying is the most common form
of violence in our society
Effects of bullying
Victims (kids) of bullying can suffer from the following:
- Sadness- Low self-esteem- Anxiety- Hard time making friends- Bad grades (10% of teenagers miss a day or more per month)- Possible violence ( Victims turn into bullies themselves)
Health Consequences
Bullied Not bulliedHeadache 16% 6%Sleep problems 42% 23%Abdominal pain 17% 9%Feeling tense 20% 9%Anxiety 28% 10%Feeling unhappy 23% 5%Depression scale
1.moderate indication 49% 16%2. strong indication 16% 2%
Dynamics of Bullying
- A power difference between bully and victim- Bullies tend to be confident, aggressive, and lack
empathy for the victim- Bullies come from homes where there is poor supervision,
and modeling of a tolerance for aggressive behavior- Victims tend to be quiet, passive children with few friends- Victims do not respond effectively to aggressive actions.- Bullying often done so that adults are not aware of it.- Victims are ashamed, and often don’t tell an adult.
- Some believe that kids learn how to bully from mean adults
- Some believe that kids bully to feel more powerful and in control of people around them.
- Some believe that kids who bully are sad and angry inside and don’t know how to express their feelings.
Why do people BULLY?
Victims do not report because…
- Feelings of shame- Fear of retaliation- Fear that adults can not or will not protect
the child in the setting where the bullying is taking place
- Bullying is a normal part of growing up.
TRUE FALSE
True or False?
Bullying is a normal part of growing up.
FALSE
There is nothing normal about being teased, mistreated, pushed around, insulted or hurt
True or False?
- Some people deserve to be bullied.
TRUE FALSE
True or False?
- Some people deserve to be bullied.
FALSE
Nobody deserves to be bullied. EVER
True or False?
- Kids who tell adults about bullying are tattlers.
TRUE FALSE
True or False?
Kids who tell adults about bullying are tattlers.
FALSE
Bullying is serious. If you or someone else is being bullied, it’s not tattling to get an adult involved.
True or False?
- The best way to deal with a bully is to get even.
TRUE FALSE
True or False?
The best way to deal with a bully is to get even.
FALSE
Trying to get even only makes things worse.
True or False?
- People who are bullied might hurt for a while, but they’ll get over it.
TRUE FALSE
True or False?
People who are bullied might hurt for a while, but they’ll get over it.
FALSE
Bullying hurts for a long time. Some kids drop out of school because they were bullied. Some kids hurt themselves or others because they were bullied.
True or False?
- Bullies will go away if you ignore them.
TRUE FALSE
True or False?
Bullies will go away if you ignore them.
TRUE AND FALSE
Some bullies might go away. Some bullies might want a reaction so badly that they might keep trying until you show you’re upset.
True or False?
True or False?
- Spreading rumors is a form of bullying.
TRUE FALSE
Spreading rumors is a form of bullying.
TRUE
True or False?
- Only boys bully.
TRUE FALSE
True or False?
Only boys bully.
FALSE
True or False?
- Bullying only happens at school.
TRUE FALSE
True or False?
True or False?
Bullying only happens at school
FALSE
Bullying can happen anywhere!
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isfn4OxCPQs
VIDEO and DEBATE
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