be strong and let go

Be Strong and Let Go

No matter how many times you have gone through a break up in your relationships, it still hurts each time. It is more painful for those who experience it for the first time in their life. After a break up, you might decide not to get into a serious relationship again because you are afraid of getting hurt once more. You may even fear that you might not find another person because your self-esteem was shattered. Feelings of not being good enough for anyone might lurk in your mind. Stop thinking and talking about him. Forget about contacting or spying on him especially in the early days. No need to send him an e-card, remembering his birthday or other anniversary dates. And as long as you still have even a tiny hope that you want to come back together, refuse to see or write to him again. Return his things or dispose them. It is a way of assuring yourself that you have really accepted that the relationship is over. Keep the gifts, photographs and cards that you have received out of your sight. What is the worst thing that can happen from the break up? You definitely have learned something from the relationship, about yourself and your partner. It's up to you to answer that. But what is more important is to get on with life. It is not the end. You still have your family, other friends, your career and a full life ahead. You can make new friends that may develop into better relationships. You can do things that you wanted done but held on because he did not like it. Sitting alone in }our room and0brooäing a"out what could havå been i{ a waste of time and energy. Figuring a!wcy to avenge how he has`âmen unfair to you may satisfy to a cErtai. extent but it does not benefiô you in any other way. Remember that he is getting on with his life And you are wasting yours away. The best thing xou can do is to work"on yourself, on your qersonal growth. Plan out and state your goals nn what`you"want out of your cáreer and your ogn personál improve}ent. Acxieve Your Dreams! Work on kmpô”€lTôÑÁ7¶l¤‰Ë”ùÆ”hÒ„Æ)ß=¢¹BlŽ2äÑ/µG6ñ}*Á,™R‰›uîùìäD߈ßKòâxË8QœÄ=˜

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