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2. Hangang sa Dulo ng Walang Hangan (Making your marriage last a lifetime ) 3. My Family 4. 5. Kamusta Ka

Kamusta ka tayo ay magsaya,

Pumalakpak pumalakpak ituro ang paa,

Ipagdyak sa kanan, ipadyak sa kaliwa,

Umikot ng umikot at humanap ng iba

6. Plano ng Dios (John 10:10)

. Ako ay narito upang sila ay magkaroon ng buhay (zoe vs. bios) at magkaroon nito na may lubos na kasaganaan (zoe VS bios) .

To live life to the fullest! GRABE To live life with a wow!LUBOS! Masaganang buhay, ngayon! 7. Ano ang ating nakikita (John 10:10)?

Ang magnanakaw ay hindi pumarito malibang siya ay magnakaw, pumatay at maminsala

50%paghihiwalay 70%taas sa pagwawalang bisa! 10%can only be considered highlysuccessful! (matagumpay) 8.

More and more we find couples living separate lives

(kanya-kanyang buhay)

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Masaya ba ako sa aking buhay magasawa?

Paano ba namin patuloy na pagiibayuhim ang aming pagsasama? Ano pa ba ang dapat naming malaman upang ang aming pagsasama ay pang habang buhay ? 10. Hangang sa Dulo ng Walang Hangan 11. I. Understand Gods Intention

22Wives, submit to your husbandsas to the Lord .23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, soalso wives should submitto their husbands in everything. 25Husbands, love your wives, justas Christ loved the churchand gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.

Ephesians 5:22-27

12. 1. Salamin (Reflection)

pasakop katulad ng Iglesya

Magmahal katulad ni Cristo

13. Magmuni-muni

Marriage in creation was made as anillustrationof, or amirrorof, the marriage between Christ and His Church.

http://www.prca.org/articles/family/family_2.html

Salamin o Larawan 14. 2. Pagtitipan (Covenant)

Not just a contract between 2 individuals but an agreement between3parties (tatlong partido)

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A covenant is more personal than a contract it involves loyalty ( katapatan ) and allegiance ( pagtatalaga ), not just a financial exchange.

16. 3. Habang buhay (lifetime)

Till death do us part

(hangang sa dulo ng walang hangan)

17. The number 1 na hadlang

EGO

Huwag mong tignan mo ang iyong sarili ng masmataas sa nararapatRomans 12:3

18. Ang tingin ko ba ay ako ang laging tama o ang laging nagbibigay sa aming pagsasama? Magmuni-muni: 19. II. Umunawa (Understand) 20. 1. Tignan ang pagkakaibahan (differentness)

Background

How the brain is wired

Love languages

21. Male vs. Female brain

Iba ang disenyo

Problem Solving vs. Listening Attentively

Protecting and Providing vs. Bonding

Separateness vs. Connectedness

22. Male vs. Female brain

Iba ang disenyo

Pagayos ng propblema vs. Pakikidamay

Proteksyon vs. Pagsasama

Hiwalay vs. Konektado ang lahat

23. 5 Pananalita ng Pagibig

By Gary Chapman

Pamamaraan ng paghahayag ng pagibig

Gamit sa paguusap

24.

Salita

Lambing

Kaloob

Panahon

Paglilingkod

25. Paano malaman 1 . Observe how your spouse expresseslove to you (sa iyo).2. Observe how your spouse expresseslove to others (sa iba). 3. Listen to what your spouse requestsmost often (laging hiling). 4. Listen to your spouses most frequentcomplaints laging (reklamo). 5. Give your spouse a choice between twooptions (ipapili). 26. 2. Pasukin ang kanyang mundo

Empathy

Pagpasok sa mundo ng ibang tao

Compassion

com kasama

passion paghihirap

27. 3. Tangapin ang lahat-lahat

Uniqueness

Specialness

Differentness

28. 3. Tangapin ang lahat-lahat

Uniqueness

Specialness

Differentness

29. Have I ever tried to enter the world of my spouse (Handa na ba akong pasukin ang mundo ng aking asawa) ? Magmuni-muni: 30. III. Tunay na makinig 31. 1. Nanganganinag na Pakikinig (Reflective Listening) 32. What is it?

1. Ask yourself what the other is possibly feeling (kanyang damdamin?) .

2. Think of the feeling word that describes the emotion being expressed (anong salita?)

3. Put the feeling word in a tentative sentence form :

Parang o pakiwari ko

It seems like or it looks like

33. 2. Naririg ba ako? (I vs. You) 34. Ikaw Message Criticism/Blaming/ Accusing/ComplainingResult:Resentment or rebellionSelf-worth affected MisunderstandingTotal person affected 35.

1.Non-Blaming (walang paninisi)

2. Describes the spouses behavior that bothers you (nasa isyo lang)

3. Expresses how you feel about the behavior/or what you want to happen (ipinaalam ang tunay saloobin)

Ako - Message 36. Examples (wrong)

Ikaw talaga ang tamad-tamad mong maghanap ng trabaho, sawang-sawa na ako sa iyo.

Kung kailan ka pa tumanda doon ka pa umarte, nang aakit ka ba ng iba?.

Hoy, huwag mo akong taasan ng boses, hindi mo ako palamon!

37. Examples (right)

1. When you do not come home on time, I get worried because I care a lot about you.

When you do not study your lessons I get anxious because you may not pass your exams (child).

Kung sinisigawan mo ako, ang pakiramdam ko ay hindi mo ako mahal at hindi pinapahalagahan.

38. 3. Listen to the body language 7% - Salita38%- Tono 55%- Kilos ng katawan 38% +55% =93%Hindi salita! http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/13/words-are-only-7-of-your-communication/ 39. Reading the non-verbal communication 40. Lottery Winner 41. 9/11 Tragedy 42. Aftermath of Ondoy 43. Engagement 44. Before the Divorce 45. Ako ba ay handang tunay na makinig sa aking asawa upang magalak at maghirap sa kasama nya? Magmuni-muni: 46. Pagtatapos :

Every marriage can last a lifetime (even after a great tragedy) if both are committed to work on it.

47. Pagtatapos :

Ang inyong pagsasama ay pwedeng magtagal ng habang buhay kung kayong dalawa ay handang gumugol ng panahon upang ito ay pagibayuhin.

48. Renewal of Marriage Vows

__________ (pangalan ng asawa),ipinapangako ko ang aking pagibig at pagtatalaga sa iyo,patuloy kitang mamahalin, igagalang, at magtatapat sa iyo. Hindi kita iiwan, sasamahan kita maykaramdaman ka man o wala. Sa panahon ng kawalan o pagpapala, maayos man ang lahat o hindi. Ngayon, sa simula ng ating _____ taon ng pagsasama bilang magasawa, sa prisensyang ating Dios, pamilya at kaibigan, sinasariwa ko ang aking mga pangako na mamahalin kita hangang sa dulo ng walang handan.

49. Renewal of Marriage Vows

__________ (spouse's name), _____ years ago, I pledged my love and commitment to you, but it seems like only yesterday. I promised to love you, honor you, comfort and keep you. I pledges to be by your side in sickness and in health, in times of want, and times of plenty, for better or worst. Today, at the beginning of our _____th year as husband and wife, in the presence of God, and our family and friends, I renew my vows to you, pledging my eternal love for you.

50. 51.