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August 2014 1 ALWAYS THERE FOR US 'She was a lovely mum, she was always there for us', 'He was a great dad, never made a fuss but he was always there for anyone who needed him.' I've lost count of the number of times visiting a family and preparing a funeral that I've heard words like these. Time after time, the greatest tribute loved ones pay is that the person was 'always there for us'. Those home visits and those wonderful warm tributes remind me, in a busy world, with diaries and e-mails making more and more claims on us, how important it is for us to make space for those who need us. Some people, perhaps because of their personalities, are more naturally able to be 'there for others'; others of us perhaps need to work that bit harder to make sure that paper doesn't push people out. Five minutes genuinely listening to someone, without having your mind on the next thing, or on what you are going to say, can be so life-giving and affirming and so important for that person, who simply needs you, at that moment, to be 'there for them.' In a previous parish I was crossing the church car park and a car window was wound down and the question came: 'Are you 'im wot's 'ere?' Because I could say yes to that, I was open and available to give space to someone who needed at that moment to talk and to be genuinely listened to. Perhaps it might seem odd to be reflecting on the epitaph which others will write for us, but I wonder if you, like me, wouldn't at all mind being remembered with affection as someone who was 'always there for us'. Canon Chris Oxley The Five Parishes News Serving the villages of Catthorpe, Misterton/Walcote, Shawell, Stanford-on-Avon, and Swinford The copy deadline for the September issue is Thursday 14th August Please send news items, by the copy date, to: [email protected] Copies of the current and previous newsletters are also available to view online at: www.avonswift.org.uk What’s On - August 7th Swinford Skirts 9th 10th Wedding Festival Peatling Parva 13th Swinford Mothers’ Union 17th Afternoon Teas Firtree Lane, Swinford 23rd SODS Barbeque 31st Swinford Songs of Praise

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ALWAYS THERE FOR US

'She was a lovely mum, she was always there for us',

'He was a great dad, never made a fuss but he was always there for anyone who needed him.'

I've lost count of the number of times visiting a family and preparing a funeral that I've heard words like

these.

Time after time, the greatest tribute loved ones pay is that the person was 'always there for us'.

Those home visits and those wonderful warm tributes remind me, in a busy world, with diaries and

e-mails making more and more claims on us, how important it is for us to make space for those who

need us. Some people, perhaps because of their personalities, are more naturally able to be 'there for

others'; others of us perhaps need to work that bit harder to make sure that paper doesn't push people out.

Five minutes genuinely listening to someone, without having your mind on the next thing, or on what

you are going to say, can be so life-giving and affirming and so important for that person, who simply

needs you, at that moment, to be 'there for them.'

In a previous parish I was crossing the church car park and a car window was wound down and the

question came: 'Are you 'im wot's 'ere?' Because I could say yes to that, I was open and available to give

space to someone who needed at that moment to talk and to be genuinely listened to.

Perhaps it might seem odd to be reflecting on the epitaph which

others will write for us, but I wonder if you, like me, wouldn't at

all mind being remembered with affection as someone who was

'always there for us'.

Canon Chris Oxley

The Five Parishes News

Serving the villages of Catthorpe, Misterton/Walcote, Shawell,

Stanford-on-Avon, and Swinford

The copy deadline for the September issue is Thursday 14th August

Please send news items, by the copy date, to: [email protected]

Copies of the current and previous newsletters are also available to view online at: www.avonswift.org.uk

What’s On - August

7th Swinford Skirts

9th

10th

Wedding Festival

Peatling Parva

13th Swinford Mothers’ Union

17th Afternoon Teas

Firtree Lane, Swinford

23rd SODS Barbeque

31st Swinford Songs of Praise

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SWINFORD PARISH COUNCIL NEIGHBOURHOOD

PLANNING

The legislation around local planning and development

is changing significantly with new legislation coming

into force. The Parish Council has been looking into the

potential impact on our village and is keen to engage

with villagers so that the interests of our community can

be protected.

Communities like Swinford have the option to draw up

a legally recognised Neighbourhood Plan (see article in

last Five Parishes Newsletter), this is a costly process, in

excess of £10,000, but may be one that the community

wishes to explore.

In order to carry out an initial feasibility study prior to a

wider consultation process the Parish Council wishes to

put together a small working group consisting of parish

councillors and 3 or 4 village residents. It would be to

everyone’s advantage to be able to recruit volunteers

with skills in and experience of project management,

local planning, development and legal frameworks. If

you have these skills and are willing to participate

please send a brief CV to Jan Throop, Clerk to Swinford

Parish Council, [email protected].

We need to act quickly so an early response would be

helpful.

Jane Robson

SODS OR MAYBE EVEN...'SAOGLODS'!

SODS is currently busy preparing plans for the 2014

panto and would like to invite people to come along and

get involved!

Although we are called 'Swinford Operatic and Dra-

matic Society' we are very happy to involve people

throughout our locality and maybe even further be-

yond...hence SAOGLODS...'Swinford And Other Great

Locales Operatic and Dramatic Society'!

OK - that doesn't flow quite so well, but we would still

very much like to welcome some new members to

SODS and whether you are from South Kilworth,

Catthorpe, Shawell, or any of the other surrounding vil-

lages and beyond doesn't matter to us...anyone with a

passion for panto will be warmly received.

There are so many ways to get involved - make up, cho-

reography, acting, singing, props, scenery, dancing,

playing an instrument, lights, camera, action and most

of all fun!

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It is a great chance to get to know people, and a fantas-

tic way to get experience for some of the youngsters out

there.

If you would like to join in with any element of the

2014 panto please do, you can contact SODS via the

Secretary Nina Mold on 01788 860917 or the Chairman

Hayward Underhill on 01788 860699.

Hope to see you soon!

'STOP PRESS'...

The annual SODS BBQ will be held this year on Satur-

day 23rd August at the Kilbane's house on Rugby Road

Swinford. It's the usual arrangement of bringing your

own food and drink along to the occasion with a side

dish or dessert for others to share. Exact time still to be

confirmed but all would be welcome - call either of the

numbers above for more information.

Nina Mold

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SWINFORD PARISH COUNCIL

Swinford Parish Council met on Tuesday 1st July.

Neighbourhood Plan - Matthew Bills (HDC) gave a

very informative talk on this subject. Notice to be put in

Five Parishes Newsletter to ascertain what support there

is within the village for the Parish Council to proceed

with a Neighbourhood Plan.

Water supply to Cemetery - To be completed soon.

Potholes - Several potholes have now been mended but

if any Parishioner wants to report a pothole contact

[email protected]

Web Site - Parish Council Minutes and Meeting Agen-

das are now published on the Swinford

page of the Leicestershire Villages Website

(www.leicestershirevillages.com)

Strategic Housing Land Availability Assessment 2014 -

Information of potential new housing

sites in the Harborough District is available at

www.harborough.gov.uk/shlaa-consultation

Payments.

E-On £60.20 £88.91 £714.00 (New light Stanford

Road)

Clerks salary and expenses £262.85

Materials for water supply to cemetery £300.38

Lamley Bros £150.00

The next meeting is on Tuesday 2nd September Swin-

ford Village Hall 7.30pm

Jan Throop

Parish Clerk

[email protected]

SWINFORD PARISH COUNCIL

There is a vacancy for a

PARISH COUNCILLOR

Anyone interested please forward your

details by 20th August 2014 to

Jan Throop

Parish Clerk

12 Chapel Fields

[email protected]

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RIDE AND STRIDE AND HARVEST FESTIVAL AT CAT-

THORPE

Saturday 13th September is Ride and Stride day and to

mark the occasion in Catthorpe we are decorating the

church for harvest.

We will be serving BBQ snack lunches and cream teas

from 11.00am - 4.00pm. All sponsored cyclists will be

rewarded with free refreshments at St Thomas's.

The day will end with a Harvest Songs of Praise at

4.00pm. All are most welcome.

Rebecca Bowen

THANKS

Paula and I would like to thank everyone who made our

Ruby Wedding celebration on 6th July so special. Over

80 people from across the parishes joined us for tea and

cakes on the Rectory lawn, and the weather was good,

as promised! We were delighted to receive so many

cards and lovely gifts and so much love and affection

from so many people. It was a very special day for us

and we were thrilled to share it with you.

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Avon-Swift Group Services

Sunday 3rd August 7th Sunday after Trinity [lectionary Proper 13] (Green)

Gen.32: 22-31; Rom. 9:1-5; Matt.14: 13-21

8.30 am North Kilworth Holy Communion (BCP) Canon Chris Oxley

9.30 am Kimcote Holy Communion (CW) The Rev’d Emma Davies

9.30 am Stanford on Avon Holy Communion (CW) The Rev’d Jane Kennedy

10.30 am Misterton Holy Communion (CW) The Rev’d Philip Clements

11.00 am Gilmorton Family Service The Rev’d Emma Davies

11.15 am Catthorpe Holy Communion (CW) The Rev’d Jane Kennedy

6.00 pm Swinford Holy Communion (CW) Canon Chris Oxley

Wednesday 6th August The Feast of the Transfiguration of Our Lord

9.00 am South Kilworth Holy Communion for the benefice

Sunday 10th August 8th Sunday after Trinity [Proper 14] (Green)

Gen.37:1-4, 12-28; Rom.10: 5-15; Matt. 14: 22-33

8.30 am Kimcote Holy Communion (BCP) The Rev’d Emma Davies

9.30 am Ashby Magna Holy Communion (CW) The Rev’d Emma Davies

9.30 am Swinford All-age worship Canon Chris Oxley

9.45 am South Kilworth Family Service Beth Rogers

11.00 am Gilmorton Holy Communion (CW) Canon Chris Oxley

4.00 pm Misterton All-age worship The Rev’d Emma Davies

The Rev’d Jane Kennedy

Wed 13th August

9.00 am South Kilworth Holy Communion for the benefice

Jeremy Taylor, Bishop and Teacher (1667)

Sunday 17th August 9th Sunday after Trinity [Proper 15] (Green)

Gen. 45: 1-15; Rom.11: 1-2a, 29-32; Matt.15: 10-28

8.30 am Gilmorton Holy Communion (CW) The Rev’d Emma Davies

9.30 am Kimcote Matins (BCP) Keith Wilding

9.30 am Ashby Magna All-age worship Canon Chris Oxley

9.30 am North Kilworth Holy Communion (CW) The Rev’d Emma Davies

9.45 am South Kilworth Holy Communion (BCP) The Rev’d Paula Oxley

10.30 am Shawell Holy Communion (CW) Canon Brian Davis

11.00 am Peatling Parva Holy Communion (BCP) Canon Chris Oxley

6.00 pm Swinford Evensong Canon Chris Oxley

Wed 20th August

9.00 am South Kilworth Holy Communion for the benefice

St. Bernard, Abbot of Clairvaux (1153)

Sunday 24th August St. Bartholomew the Apostle (Red)

Isaiah 43: 8-13; Acts 5: 12-16; Luke 22: 24-30

10.30 am Stanford Avon Swift Group Service Canon Chris Oxley

Holy Communion (CW)

With groceries [collection for Lutterworth & Villages Foodbank]

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Wed 27th August

9.00 am South Kilworth Half-hour said Communion (CW) for all the benefice

St. Monica, Mother of St. Augustine of Hippo (387)

Sunday 31st August 11th Sunday after Trinity

Exodus 3: 1-15; Rom. 212: 9-end; Matt. 16: 21-end

9.30 am South Kilworth Holy Communion (BCP) Canon Chris Oxley

(joint with North Kilworth)

10.30 am Kimcote Holy Communion (CW) The Rev’d Emma Davies

11.00 am Ashby Magna Holy Communion (BCP) Canon Chris Oxley

6.00 pm Gilmorton Evensong The Rev’d Emma Davies

6.00 pm Swinford Songs of Praise Canon Chris Oxley

favourite hymns and readings

BCP = Book of Common Prayer (1662) - traditional language

CW = Common Worship (2000) - contemporary language

Evening Prayer - Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays & Fridays - 5pm at Gilmorton Church

All enquiries regarding Church matters should be directed to:-

The Revd Canon Chris Oxley, The Rectory, Kilworth Road, Swinford.

Telephone: 01788 860445; email: [email protected]

The Revd Emma Davies, The Vicarage, 5 Church Lane, Gilmorton.

Telephone: 01455 556573; email: [email protected]

The Revd Jane Kennedy, 17 Cromwell Close, Walcote.

Telephone: 01455 554065; email: [email protected]

For Misterton and Shawell:

The Revd Canon Brian Davis, Telephone: 01858 431843; email: [email protected]

From the Parish Registers

Weddings - we wish every blessing on their marriage:

Misterton 26th July Louise Benoist and Peter Millard

WEDDINGS FESTIVAL in PEATLING PARVA

9 and 10 August 2014, 10.30am – 4.30pm

adults £3, children free of charge

Visit St. Andrew’s Church in Peatling Parva to see a wonderful display of

vintage and modern wedding dresses, dating from the 1890s up to the present day.

Many of the gowns belong to brides who were married in this beautiful church and will be completed by floral

bouquets to match the decades of the dresses.

Also enjoy a decorated classic wedding car with its own ‘Bride & Groom’, organ recitals,

ringing of hand bells and church bells and beautiful themed flower arrangements.

Teas, coffee, homemade cakes and light refreshments will be served in the Village Hall,

with a wedding-themed exhibition and a special wedding party of CrowScarers to greet you!

Do come and join us, (a warm welcome awaits you) to help raise funds to maintain our much-loved church.

More information from Pamela : 0116 247 8926

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WELCOME

After the summer holidays, we shall be welcoming

Daira Vavere on placement with us, as part of her train-

ing for ordination in the Latvian Evangelical Lutheran

Church in Great Britain. Daira’s husband, Viesturs, is

the Lutheran pastor for Latvian congregations in this

part of the country. The family lives in Catthorpe and

are very much part of our local community. Our very

varied benefice will give Daira lots of opportunities to

experience Christian ministry and I shall be supervising

her placement with the support of Emma and Jane.

Daira will be doing a 2-year part-time course through

St. John’s, Nottingham. Please look out for Daira and

help her feel welcome among us, and keep her in your

prayers (and Viesturs!) during this period of training.

Chris Oxley

SONGS OF PRAISE

6pm at Swinford on 31st August…let Chris have your

favourite hymns and readings (by 18th August, please!)

and we’ll see what we can do!!

SWINFORD WEDNESDAY CLUB

We have all been quite industrious of late, whether it is

knitting for the family, making sewing repairs or knit-

ting more squares. We started June by joining the Moth-

ers' Union Ladies for a Garden Party, which everyone

enjoyed in spite of the cool, wet weather. We were all so

happy to welcome back Lindsey - her craft skills are

very inspiring and her bubbly personality is a real pick-

me-up.

Linda Reynolds also came to visit us this month. She

used to live in Fir Tree Lane and emigrated to Australia

several years ago to be near her family. She was on holi-

day in the UK and had been staying with Hazel Gardner.

They both came to join us one morning for tea and bis-

cuits. It was lovely to catch-up with Linda's new life and

she showed us photographs of her house, garden, life-

style and the family. She obviously has settled in really

well and has now taken Australian citizenship. She was

lucky with her weather in the UK and she explained that

she had brought an empty suitcase with her just so that

she could buy all those things that she missed, plus

shoes, clothes, etc. which were far more expensive in

Australia. Everyone moans from time to time about life

in the UK and it is always lovely to hear about people

settling into a new life abroad, but in our general discus-

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sions, after Linda and Hazel had left, we all thought that

on balance - although it is lovely to see other parts of

the world - none of us would have considered emigra-

tion.

As always you have an open invitation to join us. We

meet in the small meeting room to the rear of the Village

Hall every Wednesday morning from 9.30 to 11.30am.

Do join us.

Linda O'Reardon

SWINFORD MOTHERS' UNION

Traditionally Swinford Mothers' Union do not meet in

July so this is just a reminder that the next meeting will

be Wednesday 13th August. We are going for a carvery

lunch to The Elms in Lutterworth. Some of our mem-

bers are not too keen on the carvery as they do not like

the 'help yourself - queuing' aspect. Please be assured

that this can be resolved, either one of us will collect

your choice of carvery and bring it to you; alternatively

you can choose a dish from the menu. Lifts have been

arranged and we shall be leaving at 12.15pm for a

12.30pm lunch.

Linda O'Reardon

SWINFORD WI

In June the Ladies of the WI had their garden visit. This

year it was to The Old Stables in Bruntingthorpe which

opens during the summer months as part of the National

Garden Scheme. We were made very welcome by

Gordon and Hilary Roberts who showed us around their

beautiful one acre garden. There was a vast range of

trees and shrubs to capture the imagination, and a rather

magnificent fig tree which had several of us in raptures.

After a lovely meander around we sat down to tea and a

rather delicious selection of cakes.

This year's garden party was held in July at Mary

McCulloch's house. We were joined by Rita Burn from

South Kilworth's WI. The members all brought along a

selection of sweet and savoury buffet goodies which

made for a rather sumptuous spread. Several of us had a

wander around Mary's beautiful garden, while the rest

of us sat about the patio and conservatory catching up

on local news and having a general natter. Everyone

agreed that it had been an enjoyable and informal eve-

ning.

There is no meeting in August. Our guest speaker in

September will be Lt. Col. Gerald Lesinski. He is join-

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ing us to talk about his time in the Grenadier Guards

and more specifically his participation in the Trooping

of the Colour. All are welcome to join us on September

11th at 7.30 in the Parish Hall. It promises to be an

eventful evening.

Lindsey Manton

Secretary - Swinford WI

OPEN AS NORMAL...

The Manor Farm Shop & Tearoom (and Cherry Tree

pub) will remain open as normal throughout the delight-

ful road works and changes taking place at the Cat-

thorpe Interchange. There will be several road closures

over the coming weeks (which should be clearly sign-

posted), but we will always be here to welcome you!

Free Children's Arts & Crafts

Don't forget about our FREE arts and crafts workshops

held every Thursday 10.30am - 12.30pm in the Wheel

Room with Janet. There are different, themed activities

each week....so they are a great activity to keep the chil-

dren amused during the school holidays. It's also a great

excuse for a piece of cake or spot of lunch!

Caroline England

Manor Farm Shop

01788 869002

ALL SAINTS SWINFORD

We would like to thank all those who supported our fete,

either by helping out before and on the day, or by drop-

ping in and spending money. Over £1,200 was raised to

help us on our way towards getting the bells ringing out

again. Thank you, thank you.

SWINFORD SKIRTS

Skirts had a splendid evening on a narrow boat on 10th

July. It was a beautiful warm evening. The evening was

well supported so several of us walked along on the tow

path whilst the others cruised. After our delicious mid

way homemade picnic we swapped over and walked /

cruised back. Many thanks to Liz Morris and North Kil-

worth Marina for a wonderful evening.

The next meeting will take place on Thursday 7th Au-

gust. We shall be enjoying a leisurely bike ride followed

by a meal at The Head of Steam at Lilbourne. The meal

consists of lasagne, jacket potatoes, quiche, salads etc

and a choice of desserts. £10 per person. Please come

and join us for the meal if you don't fancy the bike ride

beforehand. Please contact Emma on 07931 926524 to

book your meal.

A date for your diary: Friday 19th December Catthorpe

Manor. ABBA tribute band and four course sit down

meal. £28 each. Please let me know if you and your

partner would like to join us.

Julie Morris

07765 148335

M1 JUNCTION 19 IMPROVEMENT SCHEME PROJECT

UPDATE - AUGUST 2014

The M1 junction 19 improvement scheme is well under

way, and you have no doubt noticed the changes to the

junction since we started construction. There will be

many more changes as we progress.

To keep you updated on progress here is this month’s

round up of what is going on now and coming up in the

next month.

What’s happening on site?

• Construction of the new link between the M6 and

the A14 underneath the M1 is underway, with the

drilling and casting of concrete supports.

• We’ve started work on the River Avon bridleway

and construction of a new link road

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• Construction of the bridge supports for the flyovers

from the A14 to the M1 and the M6 to the M1 are

underway, with new concrete structures being cast

on-site.

• The new Shawell Lane road realignment is pro-

gressing well and will be ready for temporarily di-

verting M6 traffic in the autumn.

• The A14 to M1 embankment is growing and the

large earthwork is being prepared for the next stages

of construction.

Planned road closures & Footpaths

• Shawell Lane will be closed from the middle of

June to the middle of September this year to recon-

struct and improve the existing road. The closure

will be in place between the junction with the A5

and the village of Catthorpe. Access for residents

and landowners will be maintained, while traffic be-

tween Catthorpe and Shawell will be diverted via

the A5 and Gibbet Lane during this period.

• No right turn from Catthorpe Village to the dumb-

bell roundabout from 21st July to 8th August due to

realignment works.

• Swinford Road footpath open October 2016

• Rugby Road footpath open September 2016

If you have any questions about the construction work

as it progresses, please do not hesitate to contact the

project team.

M1 Junction 19 Improvement Project Team

The Cube

199 Wharfside Street

Birmingham

B1 1RN

Telephone: 0300 123 5000

Email: [email protected]

AFTERNOON TEAS

We will be holding a Garden Afternoon Tea event at 10

Firtree Lane, Swinford, from 2.00-5.00pm on Sunday

17th August, in aid of the Missionary Aviation Fellow-

ship, which provides aircraft transport for medical and

support staff and patients into and out of some of the

world's most remote and inaccessible areas.

Please do come along and treat yourself to a cream tea,

or tea and cake - we hope to see you on the day.

Steve & Andrea Robbins

01788 247377

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