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Affinity is a stylish, glossy complimentary publication for everyone. With its glossy cover it oozes style and sophistication. It's distributed to Bedford and villages within Beds, Bucks and Cambs. Our articles cover health, fitness, beauty, fashion, food & drink, Barry Fry's footie corner, Sport, Motors, Interiors and Entertainment, our magazine appeals to men and women alike. Affinity enables local businesses to advertise to discerning and influential readers who enjoy their local lifestyle and areaTRANSCRIPT
BEAUTY - FOOD - DRINK - HEALTH - FITNESS - STYLE - INTERIORS - MOTORS - WHAT’S ON
April 2012
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interview with Connie Fisher
Ioutdoor furniturefit for a king
tried & tested
Miscarriage
BB Creams
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Easter treats for everyone
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I am sooooo excited to announce the first annual
Affinity Charity Ball on 12th October this year at
The Sharnbrook Hotel. It is in memory of my very
dear friend Patrick (Pat) McGirl with all proceeds
going to Leukaemia. It promises to be a
spectacular evening, so if you wish to book tickets
or are interested in sponsorship don’t hesitate to
contact me – more details are on page 13.
This month’s issue is a chocolate lover’s heaven
with chocolate everywhere you look!
We took advantage of the nice spring weather
with our funky fashion shoot.
With the sunshine comes talk of outdoor living, so
we have brought you a collection of furniture to
jazz up anyone’s outdoor living space, and if you
are one of the growing number of people that
decorate your house at Easter then check out our
egg-stra special interiors on page 44.
Finally we caught up with Connie Fisher (winner
of ‘How do you solve a problem like Maria?’) over
cocktails as she prepares for her new role in
Wonderful Town.
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Threadcrafts, of
course, are more
about colour than
almost anything else.
Whether it’s patchwork,
beading, knitting yarns,
embroidery or tapestry (or any of a dozen other
similar crafts), at the end of the day colour is what
makes or breaks the end result.
Humans are often very sensitive to quite subtle
colour differences or changes, and we appear to
develop senses of colour “rightness” which are
individual to each of us. With all of this going for
us, you’d think that choosing colours for our
masterpieces would be a simple matter. But – as
most of you reading this will know very well –
this is not the case, especially when we are
starting out.
Painters (and I dabble a bit) can “manufacture”
the colour variations they need by mixing two or
more colours to get just that shade that they
want. That’s not so easy to do with fabric, beads,
yarns or embroidery cottons though. However, it
is sometimes possible to achieve by setting out to
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We find that people new to threadcraft are often
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and then to choose others that will compliment or
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and will always require help from craft shop staff
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between. Most people soon manage to call on
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built into us and begin to do some really
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CONTENTS8 Fry’s Footie
12 Osteoporosis
22 Chocolate Heaven
30 Connie’s Chat
36 On The Couch
38 Interiors
47 St. George’s Ska
50 Easter Dining
56 Drive Time
60 Looking At Prague
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It’s all very exciting, coming to the business end of the
season as we are now. The fight to be Champions or to
gain promotion and the dreaded threat of relegation is
closing in on all of us with many clubs in this battle.
The Premier League title race will go to one of the
Manchester clubs and it could well be decided when
United face City later this month. They’ve both had
unbelievable runs all season and it will be interesting to
see who lifts the silverware.
Fourth, fifth and sixth place in the top league will be a
battle between the London clubs, Tottenham Hotspur,
Arsenal and Chelsea. Very little separates these clubs so
it will be down to who are the most consistent and the
same can be said at the bottom. Realistically, five clubs are
battling for survival with three facing the dreaded drop to
the Championship.
In the Championship, it is just as close with Southampton,
Reading and West Ham United the three clubs fighting for
automatic promotion. Up to 10 clubs below them have a
chance of reaching the play-offs.
At the bottom, it looks like six clubs will fight fiercely with
half of those clubs facing relegation to League One. In that
division, it is extremely tight at the top. Charlton Athletic
had a bit of a wobble in March but they are still out in
front. Themselves, Sheffield United, Sheffield Wednesday,
Huddersfield Town and MK Dons all looking like they have
secured a play-off spot. Another five clubs underneath
them are fighting for the one remaining play-off spot.
At the foot of that division, with four going down, it looks
like there are 10 clubs in a battle for their futures in
League One. League Two is hugely competitive below
Swindon Town, who look like they will be automatically
promoted after an excellent campaign under Paulo Di
Canio. Four other clubs are fighting each other for the two
remaining automatic places.
Who drops out of League Two is another battle with up to
seven clubs in the fight for survival and that really is a
fight. The Conference is a huge league, around 85% of the
clubs are full-time at that level and the Conference is just
as keenly contested with Wrexham and Fleetwood Town
pushing each other for the title.
All in all, the season has gone very quickly and we are
coming to the climax of it now with honours to be decided.
Sit back eat your Easter Eggs and enjoy the ride!
Barry Fry8
Fry’sfootie corner
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Spring has well and truly arrived with some wonderful weather of late, so why not
grab some cute accessories and products to brighten up those crisp, clear days. You’ll
look great from head to toe with help from the latest in Spring hair and beauty.
Spring
Fling
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The MUA Love Hearts Collection combines great beauty products
with a retro sweet feel. Pucker up with one of their lip balms or
give your nails a sweet treat with a pop of
colour. The packaging is eye-catching and
the colours are perfect for a spring day.
With the choice of pastel or bright shades
in the nail polish (£2) for your manicure
you can pick and mix to suit your mood.
The lipbalms (£2) have a hint of colour
and will moisturise dry lips in an instant.
With five shades to choose from you may
have to pick them all up. The cute
messages on the packaging will definitely
put you in the mood for love, and at such great value your bank
balance will love you even more! Available from Superdrug.
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For more hair tips from Kelly visit our Hair Clinic at www.affinitymag.co.uk
Kelly Gay www.klghairadvice.com
B low away those cobwebs with this Corioliss Vintage
Compact Travel Dryer £39.99. It’s perfect for a
weekend away or if you are short on space. Dual voltage
circuitry means you can use it at home or away, and it can be
stored in its’ handy travel pouch. The two speed setting and the
1200ww motor is more than enough for this compact beauty to be an
essential part of your hair styling. We love its’ 60’s floral design!
www.corioliss.com
And it wouldn’t be spring without some cute baby animals, these pucker ducks each
come with a different design and flavour. MAD Beauty’s Pucker Ducks come in five
fab flavours, Blueberry, Black Boa – Toffee, Hearts – Strawberry, Purple Boa – Vanilla
and Silver Tiara – Plum, and would look sweet on anyone’s dressing table. You can
collect them all at £2.50, you’d be ‘quackers’ not too!
Denman’s classic D3 styling brush (from
£7.31) has been given a fruity twist, combining
the classic look with a fresh design and sweet scent.
The D3 styler is suitable for any length hair, and works
well to smooth, style and shape. With infused aromas
such as Tangy Orange, Green Apple, Wild Dewberry,
Strawberry Shortcake and Lemon Sherbet, it’ll
give you a burst of spring every time you brush
your hair.
C rown & Glory is the perfect pit-stop to
pick up some gorgeous floral hair slides.
If you have a special spring day planned the
slide can be customised to create your own
unique stunning hair accessory. Why not add
this beautiful Lana Orchid Alice Band (£10)
for that finishing touch – ideal with pretty
pastels. The Monarch Butterfly Clips (£6)
would look striking against an up-do of
tumbling curls. All items are handmade with
loving care and gift sets are available.
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Whether it’s your hair, lips or nails with these spring beauties you’ll be ready to skip into summer.
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Recently I have been speaking to several
people who have recently been diagnosed
with Osteoporosis, or thinning of the bones
and I felt compelled to write about this
degenerative disease. There are many causes of
Osteoporosis and men are affected as well as
women. Whilst I understand their very natural
concern about receiving this diagnosis, after a
fracture to the wrist or ankle, I want to stress the
positive by saying that our bones are constantly
regenerating and repairing whatever our age –
although this regeneration does slow down as we
age. There is a constant dynamic interchange
between osteoclasts - bone cells responsible for
breaking down and re-cycling old bone tissue and
osteoblasts, which repair and regenerate bone
tissue and this battle goes on throughout our life.
Therefore, to strengthen bones we need to create
the environment within the body that helps
osteoblasts to thrive. I have outlined some
Ayurvedic and Naturopathic remedies which will
help this process, either if you have been
diagnosed or are at risk of osteoporosis.
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For further information contact Carolyn Wood-Herbalist and Naturopath MAMH, MANP, ITEC
07944 886502 www.vedatherapeutics.co.uk
Osteoporosis
An alkaline diet
Acid forming foods, such as sugar, coffee, overly
processed food, white carbs and diet colas leads
to acidosis and leaching of calcium from the
bones in order to alkalise and balance the body.
Over time this weakens the bones.
Fruit, vegetables - especially root vegetables and
leafy greens, along with nuts and seeds provide
the re-alkalising minerals needed to repair bone
tissue and keep it strong.
Anti-inflammatory foods
Also add oily fish, walnuts, and olive oil for their
omega-3 fatty acids which act as natural anti-
inflammatories in the body.
Foods rich in Calcium and Magnesium
These are just some of the foods which will keep
bones strong
• Broccoli
• Bony sardines and salmon
• Tofu and miso soup
• Sesame and sesame seeds
• Tahini
• Blackstrap molasses
• Green leafy vegetables i.e. rocket,
kale, romaine lettuce
• Brazil nuts
Exercise
Gentle bone strengthening exercise includes
walking, some particular yoga postures, T’ai chi
and Qi gong.
Supplementation
Research shows that Vitamin D supplements help
to reduce bone fractures. There are some 20
nutrients needed for healthy bones and good
quality supplementation is essential. Seek
professional advice as to the most suitable
supplement for your needs.
Herbs
There are also several phyto- oestrogenic herbs,
which help to protect against osteoporosis, along
with calcium from natural sources. These can be
tailor made formulas according to individual
needs and the cause of the osteoporosis.
Reduction in stress
The stress hormone cortisol can be detrimental to
bone health if it’s secreted into the body 24/7
during periods of chronic stress.
Therapeutic massage, with anti-inflammatory
herbal oils, helps to slow the rate of deterioration,
and massage allows the body and mind to relax.
Cortisol is able to take a break from constantly
circulating in the body and leaching calcium from
the bones.
Ayurvedic Health tip
Eating a handful of white sesame seeds can
provide the daily RDA of 1200mg of calcium,
along with other valuable minerals.
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In aid of Leukemia and in memory of ‘Pat McGirl’
Tickets £50 per person
Friday 12th October 20127.00pm - 1.00am
The Sharnbrook Hotel A6/Park Lane, Sharnbrook, Beds MK44 1LX
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Hot off the Press ......
BB Cream
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Ihave recently jumped on the BB Cream wagon. It’s a hugely growing trend that
has hit all major brands in the cosmetic world. You may have seen the adverts on
TV advertising this product, but haven’t been entirely sure what it’s all about.
Well, let me help you with a few key facts as to why this cream should be added to
your bag:
• It helps soothe the skin like an anti-inflammatory where you might suffer
redness or blemishes
• It acts as a primer to help even skin tone and brightens your complexion
• It covers blemishes like a concealer.
• Hydrates the skin like a moisturiser
• Contains UV protect like a sunscreen
• Contains Anti-Aging properties like a serum
Not bad for one product eh!
The brief history:
• BB stands for Blemish Balm – although not to be taken literally, as it is
more than that as you’ll see!
• It was originally used and made popular in South Korea by a famous
actress.
• It was created by a German Dermatologist in the 1950’s, originally to
support the healing of the skin after her patients had undergone Skin
Peel Treatments.
I have tried and tested it and have to say I love it! My brand of choice is the L’Oreal
Paris Nude Magique BB Cream (£9.99) which simply gave me an even complexion
without feeling like I actually had anything on my skin! Although there are lots to
choose from and all to fit in with your budget.
As a makeup artist, it might surprise you to know that like many other people, I hate
nothing more than feeling like I have layers of makeup on my skin which I know is
just clogging my pores. So this is the perfect new alternative. I’d certainly recommend
this product if you wanted to try something new.
Sabina Ventriglia, Professional Makeup Artist
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It’s reached that time of year where the New
Year’s resolutions are long gone and we may well
be back to our normal ways of eating.
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Has your diet gone ou
On our supermarket shelves we
see the words “low fat” all the
time. However a ‘low fat’ option
doesn’t necessarily mean it is
healthy. In some cases a low fat
option can be where a food
brand offer a higher fat version
of the same product. For
example Walkers crisps sell
Cheese and Onion flavour in
both their regular range and
their Walkers Light range, the
regular has 8.3g of fat, the light
ones have 5.3 grams of fat per
100g. So the Light ones aren’t
really low in fat, they are just
lower in fat than their regular
counterparts. This is frequently
seen across low fat ranges so,
always read the label to be sure
of what you’re actually getting.
If it sounds unhealthy then it
generally is. Low fat chips, low
fat chocolate, low fat crisps
don’t scream “eat me - I’m
really healthy for you!”
“Low fat” foods
Eating things we know
we shouldn’t and saying
“I’ll go to the gym
tomorrow”. But why? What
happened to all those good
intentions? On a day to day
basis I meet people who have
tried diets in the past and
tried to eat healthily but
failed and having spoken to
them I come up with three
unbelievable reasons why
people fail to make it happen.
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Julie Holl - Personal Trainer - Holl Fitness Studio
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We all know what these are - the faddy diets, the
celebrity diets, the ones that have you popping
pills, eating weird green slime and cutting
goodness knows what out of your diet.
Recently I saw an advert for a weight loss pill that
claimed it could help you lose 1-2lbs per day. Now
we all should know by now that this extreme
weight loss is not healthy by any stretch of the
imagination, so I looked further into it to see how
it actually worked. Basically you were required to
take a drop containing a hormone found in
pregnant women to decrease appetite yet still
allow for the correct and essential nutrients to be
absorbed. I thought - wow this sounds interesting
so went on to read more about it, thinking ‘it can’t
be that simple that a single drop of this hormone
can make such a dramatic weight loss - so I read
on......on the third day of taking the drop you
switch your normal diet to one of just 500
calories per day - that is 1/5th of the
recommended calorie intake for an average male.
No wonder people are losing weight - they are
starving themselves!
There is no such thing as a ‘quick fix’ - there are
faster ways of losing weight and slower ways, but
weight loss should be a steady lifestyle change
rather than a dramatic alteration.
A fad diet is exactly that - a fad. Any successful
weight loss should be done and maintained with
eating a balanced, healthy diet that promotes
good eating habits and a healthy relationship
with food not limiting you to 500 calories per day.
This is my biggest concern when it comes to ‘diet’
foods, when a product says “only 97 calories” or
something along those lines. The reason this
worries me is because a small serving of a very,
very unhealthy food product may only have 97
calories but that’s because it is a small serving
NOT because it is healthy.
A perfect example is the Special K Bliss Mint bar,
it says “only 90 calories, it’s a little indulgence you
can enjoy” It sounds too good to be true......and it
is really. The bar only weighs 22g so it is as
described - under 90 calories, however if you look
at the nutritional information per 100g you will
find that it has 403 calories, 10 grams of fat and
36 grams of sugar. If we compare that to say
Haagen-Daas, Belgian Chocolate Ice Cream which
contains per 100 grams, 318 calories, 20.7 grams
of fat and 28 grams of sugar, we realise that
actually our diet bar isn’t looking too healthy
anymore. There are 85 less calories and 8 grams
more of sugar (per 100 grams) in the ice cream
than in the diet bar.
Now I’m not saying for one second go out and eat
ice cream instead but it’s a classic example of how
we see what we want to see and how we perceive
the advertising campaigns of such ‘healthy food’
products. (By the way Kelloggs spent £6.6m on TV
advertising on the launch of the cereal bar brand
in 2008)
The best diet food around is the natural food you
find in the fruit and vegetable section of the
supermarket. Combine that with the leanest
meats and fish you can find, such as turkey,
salmon, chicken, venison and there you have it -
diet food!
“Quick fixes”
window out the....
“Only 97 calories”
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With the Easter holidays nearly upon us it
is often a challenge to keep the kids
entertained, trying to find something
that they will find rewarding and memorable.
Sporting Targets may very well have the answer
to this dilemma. They offer an experience for the
8 to 18 age group that will leave the kids talking
for days afterwards.
Under expert supervision and instruction, they
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shotgun (they have very small ones for those of a
small stature) and shooting an air rifle. In short,
they will experience what they have seen in the
films, but in a safe and professionally instructed
environment.
It begins with the children being introduced to
their instructor, there are never more than six in a
group, and they keep the same instructor
throughout all three activities. This way each
child gets to know the instructor and vice versa.
Parents are encouraged to watch and there are
plenty of opportunities to take photographs.
Each activity begins with a safety briefing
followed by each child having a one to one on
each of the activities, the instructor demonstrates
how, in each case, to hit or break the target.
The activity started with archery, with each child
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The children were all excited and buzzing about
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Alternatively, the PIN code can be set
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For peace of mind, the PIN code can
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Connie Fisher - who won BBC show How
Do You Solve a Problem like Maria in
2006 - had been told by doctors that
she would never sing again.
Connie found fame in 2006 when she beat
thousands of hopefuls to win the BBC show and
take over the role made famous by Julie Andrews
in the 1965 film.
She played Maria in the Sound of Music in the
West End on and off for five years to excellent
reviews.
Married to Jeremy Reed, a banker whom she met
on the platform of Cardiff Central station,
Connie’s life seemed to be perfect, until last
August when she announced that she would have
to quit the role of Maria for good after a vocal
condition left her unable to hit the right notes.
Never one to give up, after undergoing surgery
Connie sang in public for the first time in January
this year with a special performance in her new
role of Ruth Sherwood in Leonard Bernstein's
Wonderful Town.
We caught up with Connie three weeks into
rehearsals for Wonderful Town which comes for
a stint in Milton Keynes later this month, “The
role was previously played by Maureen Lipman”
she told us “Making the character my own is
really important to me, I don’t want to be
Maureen Lipman I want to make my own Ruth I
want it to be funny and quirky so I’m working on
that, my job as an actress is to tell a story and
that is what I am trying to do with Ruth.
Over Manhattan cocktails, cups of tea and
biscuits we asked Connie:
Shopping, what is your weakness?
Shoes, I only have one pair of designer shoes
though, I tend to buy myself something designer
when I get a big job, I also like bags especially
Mulberry I have three Mulberry’s although the
one I have at the moment I think it may be a fake,
I brought it from the outlet online, so I’m not
sure, but it’s fine from a far no one knows
(laughs) I shouldn’t be telling a journalist this
(laughs again) but that’s fine it shows I’m human.
Also with being an actress I have to live out of a
suitcase a lot so I would say I have about 15
suitcases all in different colours I do like bright
ones so shoes, bags and suitcases are my
weakness.
Do you have any hair and beauty tips?
I had extensions because I wanted long hair –
don’t have them is my tip, I had eyelash
extensions ouch don’t have them they rip your
eyes when you pull them out and you loose your
own lashes, I wear falsies now for the show, I am
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talking the full ones don’t have those individual ones
don’t bother. I would just say wear Mac - I wear Mac -
I love Mac - it’s brilliant and never comes off. I have had
the same make up on all day (it was 6.30pm) and I
haven’t touched it up or anything since 7 o’clock this
morning; it works on stage for me with the lights, it
doesn’t melt with the heat and everything – and I’m not
sponsored by Mac or anything. I just think it’s brilliant,
it just pops your eyes
What makes you laugh?
This show is very, very funny so in rehearsals I am
laughing everyday. There’s a lot of comedy in it so it
never fails to find something new to laugh at! What
makes me laugh, hmm..... I love ‘New Girl’, this new thing
on TV which I think is hilarious. Ricky Gervais, Sarah
Milligan, Michael McIntyre they all make me laugh.
Do you have any bad habits?
I pick my lips, I sing all the time and I change my nail
varnish like everyday – that’s weird; why? to match
what you’re wearing? Yes, look I am going to have to
change it again I’ve chipped it
Any Phobias?
Spiders, pretty typical, but spiders. I also have a fear of
very steep hills, I have dreams about them, and I know it
sounds very ‘Sound of Musiccy’ but it was well before
that. I would be climbing it and never quite able to reach
the top before sliding back down again, - it’s a horrible
recurring dream. I don’t know what it means, maybe it
means I like a challenge. I also have actors dreams
where I forget the lines, my throat goes dry and nothing
comes out. Has that ever happened? Yes, yes, I forgot
my lines at Wembley, horrendous, at the Concert for
Diana in front of 8 million people!
What do you do to relax?
A nice hot bath, a massage. Part of my job is to have a
massage so that I’m relaxed; it’s not a luxury leisure
thing it’s a physical proper elbow in your back going
aaaah kind. And also a vocal massage to help me cope
vocally and not letting myself get too fatigued and stuff
like that – those are things that I have to have for the job
- it’s not stuff I really enjoy, it’s not really pampering.
I love shopping, I have to take two suitcases, I mean two
additional empty suitcases, so I can fill them up with the
shopping I have done whilst I’ve been away
What was the last good deed you did?
I gave someone my travel card this morning - I brought
a 1 – 4 and then realised I’m not using this, so I gave it to
someone, but it’s really weird when you give someone
something, they are like “no no no, I don’t want it”. I had
to say it’s free, I brought it and don’t need it you can
have it - its so strange.
What can’t you leave the house without?
My mobile phone - I think the ideal is every girl should
have a mobile phone, it’s a safety precaution, if you lock
yourself out the house as long as you’ve got your phone
you have a way of getting back in!
I read somewhere you’re designing your own
jewellery
I am and do you know, shamefully, I am not wearing any
today – can you tell us a little more about it – it’s not
available at the moment, but it will be from July. I have
been working with a Welsh designer called Carrie
Elspeth who lives down the road from me. It started as
more of an off stage hobby, something that I did in the
wings or when I had a scene off. I would just quickly
make something in my dressing room and it developed
into me speaking to Carrie. Everything is handmade
here, it’s not made in China, it’s not mass produced,
everything is made by hand, even I’ve made some of it,
it’s all Swarovski or Austrian crystal and it’s very
colourful and vibrant and for all ages. You can see
Carrie’s range online and mine will be available through
my website www.conniefisher.co.uk
Finally, Connie what would you say has been the
highlight of your career so far?
Obviously winning Maria was a real boost for me as,
until then I had been sitting in telesales trying to get a
job whilst selling advertising, and I am eternally grateful
to everyone who voted for me and even though I have
had a few vocal troubles this has meant other
opportunities have come up allowing me to reinvent
myself as an actress. II am so looking forward to
performing in ‘Wonderful Town’
Catch Connie in Wonderful Town at Milton Keynes
Theatre from 24th – 28th April
www.atgtickets.com/miltonkeynes
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Welcome to Best of the Web - Affinity Magazines
Monthly update on the best (and worst) the
internet has to offer.
Latest News
Windows 8–Latest OS release more touch screen
based
The latest version of the world’s default operating
system was released as a preview version recently for
anyone keen to keep ahead of the crowd to download
and install. This latest release has been heralded as the
best version of Windows ever and Microsoft's saviour. It
is pretty smart and does have some nice features but
when you strip back all the sparkle - it's just Windows 7
with a snazzy new applications screen but, in fairness,
I expect this is aimed at the ever growing tablet market.
http://windows.microsoft.com/en-US/windows-
8/consumer-preview Warning - you cannot reverse the
install!
Google Privacy Changes - Nowhere to hide now
Their motto has always been 'Don't be evil' but during
March Google have very quietly changed their privacy
policies to allow them to store everything you type or
do in Google (and all its’ associated products) and store
it indefinitely. This data will be used for targeted
advertising and product placement initially, but in the
long run Google will know more about you than your
partner!
You can turn this off in your Google account settings
quite easily but, of course, the default setting is to allow.
Our advice? Start using Yahoo again!
Jellybean Anyone? Android 5 warming up on the
touchline
The latest version of Android is set for release very soon
and keeping in theme with it's cute and friendly naming
conventions the latest phone and tablet software will be
called Jellybean. Not all phones will be able to use this
latest version of the software, but no doubt as your
latest upgrade comes through you'll be greeted with this
sweet little offering.
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From The Stock Cupboard
Each month the person who is lucky enough to be selected will receive such
wonders as an old USB memory stick, wireless mouse, keyboards, laptop
stands and many more junk items - it's all tat but it has to go somewhere!
This month’s winner is Roberto Forte of Bedford for sending in the
following question:
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Wunderkit
Those wizzards at WunderKinder have done it
again. Wunderkit it their latest offering in the
task management arena and is looking to
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accounts, project management and notes. The
first version of the app is great but the web
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All my views are my own and are not intended to
offend anyone but, alas, I may frustrate you as I
certainly do myself and no doubt those around
me at times. I would love to hear from you, your views,
questions or indeed just to share your experiences of
trying to be a Yummy Mummy. Email me at
Party Fun (or Hell)!
By the time you read this our ‘party mission’ will be
accomplished and no doubt a large wine drunk too! Just
as Christmas is over our thoughts turn to child number
three’s birthday. From November, when the eldest two
children celebrate their birthdays, through to the end of
February our home seems to be knee deep in cards,
presents and wrapping paper! And there’s no let up as
Roman’s birthday looms large, hence ‘operation party’
begins again in earnest.
Now when I was a child, and my memories of that
should be hazy according to the children who think I am
ancient, it is clear to me that I had a total of only three
parties. However these days it seems impossible not to
let a single birthday pass without a grand celebration.
Whilst investigating the options available it becomes
apparent that children’s parties are big business. From
chauffeur driven limousines including fake bubbly,
makeover parties or a day filled with action and
adventure, there are literally millions of services on
offer. Whatever happened to pin the tail on the donkey,
pass the parcel and jam sandwiches? Relenting to
pressure (my own and thankfully not the children’s) I
decide there is nothing for it but to organise Roman a
party.
Now you could argue that as I’m harking back to the
parties from the ‘good old days’ why don’t I have the
party at home? Not on your nelly!! Loads of four year
olds smearing chocolate into my cream carpets – the
cost of cleaning surely balances out the price of
somewhere else hosting the party! So following plenty
of research and deliberation, and trust me this took a lot
of time as there are loads of fabulous options to choose
from locally, we eventually decide to compromise and
actually do some of the work ourselves. So with the
local hall booked, we wade through the list of
entertainment options. Magic show? They are too
young to sit still long enough. Bouncy castle? I cannot
cope with the stress of potential injuries. Disco? Far too
loud and dark for us (and you cannot disco dance in the
daylight – especially when sober!). We come across the
perfect solution - a ‘Mini Strikers’ party, lots of running
about doing fun activities to keep them occupied and
with the added bonus of wearing them out.
Now, the final part of my mission is to organise the
party bags and as most parents will testify, this is a
serious task! I swear I have been to parties where the
contents of the bag must have cost more than the gift we
gave to the birthday child! Being a family who try to
embrace the green lifestyle I refuse to hand out a bag of
plastic and E numbers so instead they all get a book
each (and of course the E numbers – I relent on the
sweets, after all they will be on their way home when
they get to eat them!)
The day of the party arrives and all we need are the
party bags, the food - individual food boxes from good
old, now online, Woollies (that’s Woolworths to anybody
in their twenties and younger!) and the cake. Mini
Strikers do all the hard work entertaining them, we feed
the children and then it is time to blow out the candles.
One word of warning though - if in a public building
beware of the whooshing firework candles, as they can
set off the fire alarm that doesn’t stop until the fire
brigade arrive! Still it was one way to get everyone to
leave on time!
Welcome to the musings of Yummy Mummy.Living in Bedford she is married to ‘TheHusband’ and together they have 3 children,Rafferty, 7, Violet, 5, Roman, 3 and baby No4 is due this year.
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The Need for Change for
pecial eeds
If you are the parent of a school aged child the
chances are you will have heard of the term
Special Educational Needs (SEN). In addition
many may have heard on the news that the
government are changing the way assessments
are made and support is provided to children
with special educational needs.
What has happened in the past is that there has
been a graduated approach to SEN. Schools could
identify a child needing some additional support
in order to progress with their learning as being
at School Action on their SEN register and,
keeping parents informed would seek to meet
those needs from within the resources of the
school. For other children the school and/or
parents may need some additional support to
what the school could usually offer and these
children would be identified as at School Action
plus. For a small number of children a full
statutory assessment could be carried out and the
child may be given a statement of Special
Educational Needs. This would identify not only
the needs of the child but the support that the
school must provide to meet those needs.
Funding would then be given from the Local
Authority to the school to ensure that appropriate
support could be provided. This document – the
Statement- would then be reviewed each year at a
meeting involving school, family and any other
professionals e.g. educational psychologist or
medical professional, to ensure that as the child’s
needs change so the support changes to meet
those needs. Places within ‘specialist’ schools
maintained by the local authority are usually only
allocated to students with statements, although
many students with statements are educated
within mainstream schools
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One of the problems with this system has been
that in some ways to meet the criteria for
additional help the child has to fall significantly
behind. For those children who are offered a
statutory assessment the process takes 26 weeks,
(and many take longer) - that is a long time in the
life of a child who is struggling for any reason, and
a long time for parents who are usually anxious to
ensure their child is supported and able to
progress with their learning. Other problems
highlighted by the government are that parents
have often found the whole process bureaucratic,
bewildering, frustrating and adversarial.
So, time for a change and ‘Support and Aspiration’
– a new approach to special educational needs
and disability’ was launched. Even as someone
who regularly reads government documents this
is complex and wordy at best, not your ideal
bedtime reading but the main changes proposed
are
• Earlier identification of problems
• Parents to have more say in the help
their child is given
• Schools to offer better support
• Plans for help when young people
become adults
• Improvement to services
All sounds very promising. There are plans for a
single assessment process and that this should
take no longer than 20 weeks, with the actual
assessment taking no more than 9 weeks.
Statements of special educational need will be
replaced by a health education and care plan,
which will continue until 25 years of age. There is
an increased emphasis on ‘joined up’ working
among professionals – the lack of which is often
very frustrating for parents. The early support
plans suggest that a key worker can be appointed
and the government are also suggesting a greater
role for the voluntary sector, charities and
community groups in both the assessment,
process and support for children.
The paper also sets out the intentions for
personal budgets for children so parents will have
more say in how the funding made available to
help their child is actually used. And that is in
addition to funding which will be made available
to schools -
“By 2015 we will give schools £2.5 billion to
help them give extra support to the poorest
children, nearly 33% of whom have special
educational needs or a disability. Schools will
be able to choose how they spend this money, so
that they can choose the best way to help the
children they teach. We will introduce a new
national curriculum that will include ideas for
helping children with extra needs.”
All in all it sounds good! However we know that it
is happening within a context of radical cuts to
local governments, which in many areas are
already leading to cuts in services. Many of the
parents of children with special educational
needs that I work with, welcome some of the
changes in principle but are sceptical about how
much improvement in services and support to
individual children it will actually bring about.
Individual experience of course, varies with some
parents feeling very supported by their local
school while others feel that accessing any kind of
support is a huge battle.
Several support groups exist to help parents,
some of these are run by other parents, some
receive funding from local or national
government and others are charitable. Many
parents have found help from such groups
invaluable. For any parent who is worried about
their child it is worth talking to the child’s teacher,
or if the child is very young to their health visitor
or GP.
A parent partnership service exists in both
Bedford Borough and Central Bedfordshire to
support parents of children with special
educational needs and information about their
services is available on the council websites.
Or for advice and support on any aspect of SEN,
the assessment process and the changes that the
new legislation may bring you can contact
attuned education.
A copy of the green paper can be downloaded
form the Department For Education website
www.education.gov.uk/childrenandyoungpeople/
sen and an ‘easy read’ version is also available as
a PDF
For more information: 07921 193479
[email protected] www.attunededucation.com
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Miscarriage
On the
Couch
The secret heartache
Miscarriage is a frequent, yet often
misunderstood experience for many women.
Following a miscarriage emotions often
include: anger, sorrow, guilt, depression,
grief, despair, and feelings of emptiness. Whether your
pregnancy was planned or a surprise, the loss of your
precious baby can send your emotions on a roller
coaster ride. You want answers to many questions.
Validation of your feelings. Acknowledgement of the
loss of your baby.
It’s a situation of bleak sadness. In one devastating
moment, more often than not for no reason at all, the
pregnancy suddenly goes away. “Sorry, we can’t see a
heartbeat”; a spot of blood; a nagging pain in the
stomach. And for many women through the heartbreak
and the guilt and the endless internal questions, the
only option is to put on a brave face. To present
tomorrows presentation like nothing has happened, to
fuss over a friend’s new baby with a smile. Because
while losing a friend or relative immediately activates a
support network of understanding and sympathy, losing
a baby can bring a very lonely silence.
The figures relating to miscarriage are shocking. There
are no official government statistics held on women
who miscarry (the figures that exist are only collated for
women who are admitted to hospital, they are not
recorded for those women who go to the GP after a
miscarriage), pregnancy charity Tommy’s says one in
every four women will miscarry a baby; this will equate
to a quarter of all your female friends. And the chance of
losing a baby increases with each miscarriage.
Even knowing one in four pregnancies ends in
miscarriage, there’s a lot that we still don’t know about
why it happens. That means that most women never
find out the cause of their loss, even if they have
investigations.
It can be very difficult to cope with not having an
obvious reason for your miscarriage. If you know why it
happened, it can help you make sense of it all, and
perhaps help you plan for another pregnancy. If you
don’t know, you may begin to wonder whether it was
somehow your or your partner’s fault.
It’s important to know that your miscarriage is
extremely unlikely to have happened because of
anything you did or didn’t do.
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Choose who you speak to: Many people don’t know
how to respond to someone telling them they’ve had a
miscarriage, so choose the first person you speak to
carefully. Make it someone you trust, or who has been
through it themselves, or try a support line.
Involve your partner: Not only will this help him
recover too (40% of men suffer significant psychological
distress after a partner’s miscarriage), researchers in
the US found that couples who worked through things
together felt closer after the experience.
Choose the right treatment: If your miscarriage is
found on a scan, you will often be offered the choice of
medical intervention to remove the foetus, or to just let
nature take its course. In a study by Jane Ogden
(professor of Health Psychology at the University of
Surrey) it was found that women who chose a medical
intervention seemed to recover quicker than those who
had gone through a natural loss.
Know the facts: One miscarriage doesn’t mean you’re
destined to have another one – there’s an 80% chance
that all will be ok after one and 75% after two.
Don’t be scared to try again: Women used to be
advised to wait 18 months after miscarrying to try
again, but Doctors at the University of Aberdeen, have
found that women who try again quickly are more likely
to conceive and have a successful pregnancy. They don’t
know the exact reason but it might be to do with
avoiding the increase in maternal age that occurs with
leaving longer intervals.
You may decide to begin trying for another baby right
away or you may think this is too soon and you need
longer to recover emotionally. There is no right or
wrong thing to do, you need to do what you feel is best
for you and your partner.
If you have suffered a miscarriage and want further information visit:
tommys.org or miscarriageassociation.org
Ways to help you emotionally get over a miscarriage
The main causes of miscarriage are thought to be:
Genetic: In about half of all early miscarriages, the baby
does not develop normally right from the start and
cannot survive.
Hormonal: Women with very irregular periods may
find it harder to conceive and when they do, are more
likely to miscarry.
Immunological/ blood-clotting: Problems in the blood
vessels which supply the placenta can lead to
miscarriage, especially if the blood clots more than it
should.
Infection: Minor infections like coughs and colds are not
harmful, but a very high temperature and some illnesses
or infections, such as German measles, may cause
miscarriage.
Anatomical: There are three main anatomical causes of
miscarriage:
• If the cervix (the bottom of the uterus) is
weak, it may start to open as the uterus becomes
heavier in later pregnancy and this may lead to
miscarriage.
• If your uterus has an irregular shape, there may not
be enough room for the baby to grow.
• Large fibroids (harmless growths in the uterus) may
cause miscarriage in later pregnancy.
The physical effects of a miscarriage tend to clear up
quickly. Your next period is likely to follow between four
and eight weeks later but it may take several cycles to
re-establish a regular pattern.
You may feel physically ready to return to normal
activities (such as exercising and going back to work)
around a week after an operation, or a few days after
treatment with medicines or expectant management.
However, the emotional impact of having a miscarriage
can be much greater than the physical effects. A
miscarriage can cause a range of feelings. Everyone
reacts differently and there is no right or wrong way to
feel. It can be equally difficult for your partner and it’s
important to get the support you both need. You could
consider contacting support groups where you can talk
with people who may have similar experiences to you.
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S
Spring has now well and truly arrived – daffodils have been in
flower for a few weeks, tulips are just beginning and now that the
clocks have gone forward we have an extra hour of daylight. More
snow is unlikely in April, though not unheard of, but there could still be
some ground frosts for a few weeks to come. There’s an old saying
‘don’t cast a clout till May is out’ which basically means ‘don’t put any
tender plants out until after the end of May’. Over-wintered tender
plants like geraniums should be kept in the warmth of a greenhouse or
sunny windowsill until all risk of a cold snap has passed.
In a few weeks time the garden centres and nurseries will be full of
summer bedding plants - a riot of colour to fill your pots, baskets and
troughs. You don’t have to stick to the usual containers – an old hat
box or a wicker bicycle basket makes a great planter. Just line with
some polythene, make a few slits in the bottom for drainage, fill with
potting compost and pop in a variety of plants. I cram in as many as I
can – they are only meant to last for several months so it’s ok to
crowd them and the more their roots are restricted the more energy
they will put into flowering.
My plant of the month is Dicentra
Spectabilis which has a variety of common
names, Bleeding Heart, Venus’s Car, Lady in
a Bath and Dutchman’s Trousers to name
but a few! It has attractive feathery mid
green foliage with arching sprays of heart
shaped pink flowers edged in white. There
is also a pure white flowered variety, Alba
which is my favourite. Dicentra are happy
in sun or shade and have a long flowering
period from April to early summer.
April tips....
Flower of the month
gardening
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ᴥ Deadhead spring bulbs once the
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leaves until they have turned yellow, by
which time the goodness will have gone
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roses a good feed – well rotted horse
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each plant and they will repay you with
wonderful blooms later in the year. A
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throughout the season to keep
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Following last year’s sell out show, the St.
Georges Ska festival is back for another great
evening of live music on Saturday 21st April
at The Bedford Corn Exchange with some of the
biggest artists on the scene. Headlining this year’s
event will be Bad Manners. The band quickly
became firm favourites of the Ska scene through
their bald, enormous-bodied frontman's on-stage
antics, earning early exposure through their Top
of The Pops TV exploits and an appearance in the
live film documentary, Dance Craze.
Bad Manners were at their peak most popular
during the late 1970s and early 1980s, during a
period when other ska revival bands, such as
Madness and The Specials, The Beat and The
Selecter, filled the charts. Bad Manners spent 111
weeks in the UK Singles Chart between 1980 and
1983 and have continued as a worldwide popular
touring live act to this day.
Some of Bad Manners' more notable hits include
"My Girl Lollipop", "Lip Up Fatty", "Ne Ne Na Na
Na Na Nu Nu", "Lorraine", "Just A Feeling",
"Walking In The Sunshine", "Can Can" and
"Special Brew".
One of the main reasons for their notoriety was
their outlandish huge-tongued and shaven-
headed frontman, Buster Bloodvessel. His manic
exploits got them banned from the British BBC TV
chart show Top of the Pops and they were also
banned from Italian TV after Bloodvessel mooned
a concert audience, after being told that the Pope
was watching on TV!
A full supporting line up features very special
guests: King Hammond & The Rudeboy Mafia, our
very own home grown Ska Masters, The Pressure
Tones, and DJ Ben Ford will be back in the main
hall doing the honours between the bands
spinning ska and reggae vinyl’s and Hammy and
Geoff will be spinning classic and Northern Soul
in the Howard room until 1am.
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IIn the heart of rural Bedfordshire in the
beautiful picturesque village of Old Warden is
The Mansion House, over 130 years of age and
located in 500 acres of beautiful parkland it is a
hidden part of Bedfordshire’s history.
Old Warden was originally called ‘Wardone’
meaning a watch hill, presumably referring to the
wooded hill called the ‘warren’ located on the
estate.
The house, as it stands today, was built by Josesph
Shuttleworth who bought the Old Warden Estate
in 1872 and commissioned Henry Clutton, the
prominent Victorian architect, to design the
mansion based on Gawthorpe Hall in Lancashire.
Clutton designed the building in Jacobean style
and the high chimneys and 100 foot high clock
tower have defined and distinguished the
mansion for over a century. In addition, Clutton
designed many of the interior features such as the
carved doors, balustrades and chimneypieces.
Gillows of Lancaster made many of the interior
furnishings and there are several magnificent
examples of 19th century paintings, that still
decorate the house today, by prominent artists
such as Sir Frank Dicksee, William Leader, George
Vicat Cole and Frank Holl
The Shuttleworth crest and arms illustrate the
origins of the Shuttleworth family’s wealth in
weaving and wool.
Mansion HouseMansion HouseThe
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During the second world war, the house was a Red
Cross convalescent home and auxiliary hospital
for airmen. It then opened as an agricultural
college in 1946.
Today, Bedford College Services manage the
Mansion and the Shuttleworth College on behalf of
the Shuttleworth Trust.
The Mansion House today plays host to a variety
of events ranging from family fun days, chilli
festivals, wedding fayres and much more.
It is also available for weddings, conferences and
corporate events, as well as providing overnight
accommodation in their en-suite bedrooms.
The House, as it is now, transports you back into
years gone by with its paneled walls, paintings
that come to life when you look at them, and
ghostly goings on! When you walk around the
building there are definite cold spots and rumours
are rife that the study/library room is home to the
ghost, shadows have been seen, and whatever the
weather or temperature of this room it never
warms up, as we found out for ourselves when we
used this room to get changed in when we were
doing our fashion shoot - it made the hairs on the
back of our necks stand up without explanation!
The Mansion House
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Casserole
Ciao everyone!
Easter Sunday in an Italian home is a
joyous occasion spent with family and
friends. Typical of Italian cuisine, most
holiday tables are planned around
seasonal favourites, and springtime is a
wonderful season for doing just that.
Artichokes, fava beans, baby peas, and
asparagus fill the market stands across the
country. Lamb, or kid is often the meat of
choice and is cooked in many ways,
particularly by roasting. For dessert, a
number of regional specialties are offered,
including many that are rich in eggs and
cheese.
In the recipe I am going to show you, bite-
sized morsels of baby lamb are braised
until tender and then covered with a
mixture of beaten eggs and Pecorino
cheese.
The dish is then baked so that the eggs
solidify, covering the lamb like a blanket.
In Italy we call this: ‘Spezzato d'Agnello
Cacio e Ove’
Buona Pasqua
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Spring Lamb
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¼ cup olive oil
3 medium onions, diced
1 baby lamb shoulder, boned and
cut into 2-inch cubes
(approximately 4 pounds meat)
Salt
Freshly ground black pepper
3-4 sprigs thyme
¼ cup chopped fresh parsley
2-3 cups lamb, chicken stock, or
water.
3 cups fresh peas, blanched, or
thawed frozen peas
6 large eggs
2/3 cup grated mild Pecorino
Romano cheese
Ingredients
In a large casserole dish, heat the olive
oil over a medium heat and add the
onion; cook until it begins to turn
translucent, about 10-15 minutes.
Toss the lamb pieces with salt and
pepper to season, and then add them
to the onion. Cook and stir until lamb
pieces are browned on all sides. Add
the thyme, half of the parsley, and 2
cups of the stock or water. Cook to a
simmer and reduce heat to low and
cover.
Cook for 30 minutes, checking
occasionally to make sure the liquid
hasn’t completely evaporated, adding
more liquid if necessary. Add the peas
and cook for a further 10 minutes. If
you want to, transfer to an ovenproof
serving dish (you’ll bring the dish
straight from the oven to the table).
Beat the eggs with some salt and
pepper, the cheese, and the remaining
parsley. Pour over the lamb and peas.
Bake in the oven for about 5 minutes
on 220C or gas mark 7, until the eggs
are set and begin to puff slightly.
BUON APETITO!51
Recipe
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Ingredients
For the cake
175g butter or margarine
175g soft brown sugar
3 eggs, beaten
175g plain flour
Pinch salt
½ tsp ground mixed spice (optional)
350g mixed raisins, currants and sultanas
55g chopped mixed peel
½ lemon, grated zest only
1-2 tbsp apricot jam
1 egg, beaten for glazing
Method
Place sugar and ground almonds in a bowl. Add beaten
egg and mix to a soft consistency, add the almond essence
and knead for one minute until paste is smooth.
Roll out a third of the almond paste to make a circle
18cm/7in in diameter and keep the remainder for the
cake topping.
Preheat oven to 140C/275F/Gas 1. Grease and line
a18cm/7in cake tin.
Cream butter & sugar until fluffy. Slowly beat in the eggs,
sift in the flour, salt and mixed spice. Then add mixed
fruit, peel & grated lemon zest and stir.
Put half the mixture into the cake tin. Smooth the top and
cover with the circle of almond paste. Add the rest of the
cake mix and smooth. Bake for 1¾ hours.
Brush the top of the cooled cake with apricot jam.
Divide the remainder of the almond paste in half; roll out
a circle to cover the top of the cake with one half and
form 11 small balls with the other half.
Place the circle on the jam and put the balls round the
edge.
Brush the cake topping with a little beaten egg.
Place on a baking tray and grill for 1-2 minutes, or until
the top of the marzipan begins to brown.
Corner
Simnel CakeThe Easter Bunny may bring you a basket of
eggs, but as an alternative why not make
this traditional Easter cake instead.
ocktail
Whilst the children are indulging in a little
more chocolate this Easter, why not indulge
yourself in this month’s cocktail. The colour
alone is enough to die for, and isn’t it true that if
you drink calories they don’t count!!
Bunny - TiniGrape Vodka
Triple SecBlue Curacao
Sweet and Sour MixA splash of 7-up
Grenadine
Happy Easter
“All I really need is love, but a little
chocolate now and then doesn't hurt!”
Lucy Van Pelt
Fill a mixing glass with all the ingredients
(except the grenadine) and stir.
Layer the grenadine in the bottom of a cocktail
glass and pour in the mixed drinks.
Add a cherry to garnish.
For the almond paste
250g caster sugar
250g ground almonds
2 eggs, beaten
1 tsp almond essence
Annie’s
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Ingredients
100g butter, cubed
1 tbsp cocoa powder
50g milk chocolate
buttons
75g golden syrup
4 Shredded Wheat
Mini chocolate eggs
Chocolate Nests
These chocolate nests are a perfect way to
enjoy Easter, and kids will love making and
eating them.
MethodPut the butter into a medium bowl, add the
cocoa powder, chocolate buttons and golden
syrup. Microwave on high for 1 minute 30
seconds, or until melted, then stir to mix
everything together.
Hold the Shredded Wheat over the bowl one at
a time and squeeze in your hand to crumble it
in. Repeat with the other Shredded Wheat. Mix
altogether
Line the bun tin with 12 paper cake cases and
put a generous tablespoonful of mixture into
each of the paper cases. Press the centre of
each nest with your fingers to make a slight dip,
then arrange 3/4 mini chocolate eggs in each of
the dips. Chill for 30 minutes before eating.
Chick in a Cracked
Egg £3
John Lewis
Baby Basil £3.50
Marks & Spencer
Easter Egg Cup £4
Marks and Spencer
Felt Carrot Bag £5
John Lewis
Mr Potato head £7
Marks & Spencer
White Chocolate
Lamb £35
John Lewis
Easter Egg Head £4
Marks and Spencer
Chirping Chicks, £5
John Lewis
Happy Easter
Garland £10
John Lewis
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April is all about business education!
Are you and your team in the loop with your market, do
you thrive on change and continually review your
performance?
My recommendation of the month is to learn your
market, develop your skills and adapt to every fresh
challenge thrown at you – a mantra taken up by Bedford
College’s new ten week Small Business Enterprise Course
which starts on Monday 26th March from 6.00pm –
9.00pm for ten weeks.
This course will not instruct you how to start a business
but will give enterprising small businesses the tools to
continually assess their processes and adapt in a fast
moving market place.
Cost of the course is usually £202.00, but as an Affinity
reader you will pay just £180 when quoting us as a
reference. Please call Gina Bubbins for more information
on 01234 291389
I am delighted to report that BBW is once again the
networking talk of Bedfordshire following the success of
February’s International Women’s Day event.
Guests mingled with new contacts and are now actively
following up business. See our new business success
stories on our Facebook page.
We can also proudly announce that since last month
seven new BBW members have joined, bringing our new
membership total to 112 since September. Welcome to
Isabel Kelly PR, Rosewarne Gardens, Mercedes-Benz
Bedford, KC Learning & Development, Toddington
Osteopathic Medicine Clinic, Road Victims Trust and
Seabrook Investments Ltd - we look forward to seeing
you at a monthly meeting very soon.
Now for some news from the BBW committee, I am
pleased to announce that Emma Garratt of The Product
Marketing Company has joined the committee and will
be promoting BBW through our social media channels.
As well as a Facebook page we are tweeting away and
joining in discussions on our BBW LinkedIn page. Follow
us at twitter@bedsbizwomen. A big thank you to Jane
Fry from Affinity Magazine and Tracey Smith from
Rawlinson Pryde who have also joined the committee.
As you know, BBW is all about our members and
membership money is invested on developing the group
we simply love to be a part of.
Since September we launched a brand new website, are
displaying three new colourful banners at our monthly
meets, have sponsored Adult Achiever Award at Pride in
Bedford Awards 2011 and are now proud supporters of
Business Women of the Year at the Bedfordshire FSB
Awards to be held in June.
It is guaranteed to be a tremendous occasion to celebrate
the achievements of local businesses and will be
attracting a huge guest list of companies from across the
county. Be sure to nominate your business and give it the
publicity and recognition it deserves.
BBW is now busy prepping for our next major event. Our
annual Man Day gives us a valuable networking
opportunity to increase business potential with both
female and male business contacts.
Book your place and join us on Thursday 17th May at
Shuttleworth Collection, Old Warden from 10.00am –
2.30pm.
We would like to thank our special guest speakers on the
day including Ian Rowe, who will share his inspiring
Atlantic Odyssey Challenge story, which hit the headlines
earlier this year.
Thank you to the Federation of Small Businesses for
supporting the event and ensuring it will be a big
success. Don’t miss it! Book your place on our BBW
website www.beds-businesswomen.org.
We are now taking bookings for our April BBW
networking lunch. The meet is all about our nominated
charity of the year, St Johns Hospice. We start with a tour
of St Johns Hospice followed by a delicious lunch at the
Kings Arms, Cardington. Our guest speakers will give us
an insight into the marvellous work they do for St Johns.
Since September BBW have raised in the region of £8000
from raffles and auctions. See you on April 19th - book
your place today www.beds-businesswomen.org
Warm Wishes,
Kerry Cash
President BBW
www.beds-businesswomen.org
For enquiries - [email protected]
Dear BBW Members
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Aston Martin has face-lifted the
Vantage range for 2012 with its’
new line-up of sports cars
debuting at the Geneva Motor
Show this month. Prices for the
new range start from £84,995.
Changes are focused on the V8 Vantage, which
now gets a seven-speed Sportshift II
transmission, plus revisions to the chassis
that, says Aston, enhance the car's feel,
response and control. The new seven-speed
unit has closer gear ratios for a more sporting
response, while Aston has also engineered the
shifts to be faster and more refined.
With a lower final drive ratio, the firm says it's
been able to optimise acceleration throughout
the range and also make best use of the
performance-tuned 420hp 4.7-litre V8 engine.
The engine itself is, however, unchanged for
2012.
There is also a subtle new look inspired by the
firms' motorsport activities.
The 2012 Aston Martin V8 Vantage range
receives some very discreet styling changes
inspired by the Vantage S and N400 limited
edition. At the front, there is a new bumper
with a larger air intake to feed the engine and
brakes. It also has an aero-tuned lower splitter.
Aston has fitted what it calls 'race-derived'
side sills, while at the rear, there is a new
diffuser. The tyres are also 10mm wider and
they house revised brakes. Overall, the
changes clean up the lines of the V8 Vantage,
without radically reinventing the appearance
of the baby Aston.
This is the most comprehensive programme of
enhancements from Aston Martin since 2008.
These technical and styling changes have been
applied to both the V8 Vantage Coupe and
Roadster models, with prices starting from
RRP £84,995
Aston Martin V8 VANTAGE
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Further up the range, the Vantage S
produces 430hp from its tuned 4.7-litre V8,
and will again be more responsive on the
move thanks to the new seven-speed
gearbox. Vantage S models also get a
bespoke exhaust system, plus a more
sporting aerodynamic package detailed in
carbon fibre.
Satellite navigation, Bluetooth and cruise
control are all standard on the Vantage S.
The Aston Martin V12 Vantage, however, is
unchanged for 2012: Aston is instead
focusing its V12 activities on the V12 Zagato,
which will debut at the Geneva Motor Show
prior to going on sale later in the year.
Combining iconic styling, thrilling
performance, true craftsmanship and
exclusivity the revitalised Vantage range
boasts unprecedented breadth and appeal.
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MAN
Describe yourself in three words?
Sincere, old fashioned and occasionally eccentric
What makes you stand out in a crowd?
My bald head
Your top three movies?
Where Eagles Dare, Heat, North by North West
What do you do to relax?
Play a lot of tennis, leisure cycling and listening to
my Itunes, I have 240!!!!
Your most extravagant purchase and why?
My motorcycles. Over the years I have blown all
my money on them, they are an extravagance but
they are my passion. I don’t ride them like I used
to but I still have to own one and it stays in the
garage where I can visit it whenever I like – I even
say goodnight to it!
If you could be anyone or anything what would
it be?
The Tardis, so I can travel through time and visit
different places and events from history. I would
love to spend the day seeing what life used to be
like and then return home until the next time.
Describe your ideal woman?
Curvy, sexy and a little bit naughty (little
chuckle!), Nigella Lawson and Christine
Hendricks spring to mind.
Best Holiday destination and why?
Cornwall, it is a beautiful place and I have some
treasured memories. There is a raw beauty and
you can sit for hours looking out to sea.
You can’t leave the house without?
My tablets!
Where do you see yourself in ten years?
Hopefully backing off my current workload and
taking the time to travel more, hopping on a train
to visit different places of beauty within England,
What three people dead or alive would you
invite to a dinner party and why?
Margaret Thatcher - she always achieved her
ideals and had a real strength of character; the
stories she could tell!
Duke of Wellington, he was an excellent general
and I loved this particular time in history - I love
watching Sharpe and I imagine myself part of the
army!
Inspector Morse - I see myself in him. He has a
great character and has a presence about him. He
shows his emotions, doesn’t follow the rules and
also he likes a drink!
I have to add this dinner party would have to last
a whole week as there would be so much to talk
about.
What makes you happy?
I have to question this – If all loose ends are tied
up I am then able to relax and enjoy myself and
this in turn makes me happy – but all loose ends
have to be sorted I cannot leave something until
tomorrow.
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Ilove holidays and travel and from the moment the
plane touches down on our return to this green and
pleasant land I am planning my next getaway. In
order to make it through the grey damp days that
are often our autumn I like to escape for a bit of
‘culture’ to a European city. One of the great
advantages of living in Bedford is the nearness of Luton
airport which quite literally means lots of destinations
can be almost on our doorstep. We recently enjoyed a
weekend in Prague, leaving Thursday evening and
returning Sunday with a short 2 hour flight that gave us
a chance to take in the sights and enjoy some much
needed R & R.!
Flights from Luton to Ruzyne are very frequent, so
length of stay and time of travel can almost be adjusted
to suit your own itinerary. We chose to travel on an early
evening flight so we could work that day and only take
one day as holiday to give us a three night break.
On arrival, we decided to take the bus into the city
centre. Tickets could be purchased from a machine with
pretty clear instructions, but it seemed tourists are the
only people who actually pay! We considered buying a
travel card but were glad that we didn’t preferring
instead to walk, the city isn’t big or too spread out and
the weather was wonderful, cold at times but with
constant bright sunshine.
After checking into our hotel we headed out to find a
restaurant and really you can never walk far before
coming across a variety in terms of food ambience and
price. We chose a small restaurant serving traditional
Czech and Italian food and enjoyed some local wine and
a pasta dish with salad for the equivalent of £25.00.
Prices always look a bit frightening as you get 27.000
Czech Crowns for £1.
The hotel room was reasonably sized with all you would
expect from a city hotel, comfortable bed, tea/coffee
making facilities, en suite bath and shower and it even
boasted a sauna and ‘therapy’ room though we were far
too busy to fit in a massage!
After enjoying the ample breakfast buffet we headed out
to explore, enjoying the renowned Charles Bridge, full of
portrait artists and souvenir stalls, before heading to the
Old Town square just in time to join the growing crowd
waiting for the astronomical clock to strike. An iconic
feature of Prague the clock face not only shows the
current time but also shows movement of the planets
around earth and the sun and moon through the signs of
the zodiac. Coffees in this area were very expensive but
walking just a couple of streets away saw a great
reduction in the price.
Many of the cafes had patio heaters and thick blankets
to put over your knees making it quite possible to sit
outside and enjoy the stunning architecture as well as
coffee and pastries. After a visit to the Baroque church
of St Nicholas we headed over to the Jewish quarter
where we began with a leisurely lunch of soup and
potato dumplings, cheap nutritious and delicious,
especially when washed down with the house cocktails.
Pottering AroundPrague
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A leisurely hour or two was then spent wandering
around the lanes of the quarter with a visit to the
Jewish museum and cemetery. In the evening we
enjoyed sampling several local beers at a bar that
offered a taste of five different brews chosen from
an extensive selection, much fun was had simply
reading the descriptions. There was no shortage of
restaurants serving traditional Czech food though
as vegetarians we often had to choose something
less traditional in order to avoid meat, though we
were pleased that most restaurants offered an
excellent range of fish as well as European staples
like pizza, there are also a number Italian
restaurants so eating was always a pleasure.
The following day we headed over to the castle and
found many cafes serving warm mulled wine, which
seemed decadent in the morning but hey when in
Prague….
We could wander around much of the castle site for
free but admission to the interiors was a few
crowns. St Vitus’s cathedral is a spectacular Gothic
cathedral which looms over the city and is truly an
‘unmissable’ site in Prague, the interior being no
less impressive. It would be easy to spend the whole
day in the castle area, but we decided to head on to
the much more modern Wenceslas square.
In the evening we went to a classical concert in
Municpal house, Prague’s most prominent Art
Noveau building and a simply stunning
environment which boasts a café as well as concert
hall and from the nearby powder gate tower there a
great views over the city.
Sunday dawned bright and clear and with an
afternoon flight home we still had time to enjoy a
walk up Petrin Hill and take in the beautiful views,
in a somewhat breathless fashion having decided
NOT to take the furnicular to the top, which with
hindsight may have been the better plan.
So for anyone looking for a weekend getaway there
is a lot on offer in Prague, great architecture and a
city that is compact enough to walk around, though
buses and trams are readily available. A vast array
of hotels and restaurants means that all tastes and
budgets can be catered for, and it needn’t break the
bank – 3 nights for 2 people with flights and hotels
was under £150 person.
Many people may think of Prague as a destination
for stag or hen parties and it is true that alcohol and
accommodation can be fairly cheap there, but the
history, river Vlatava, architecture and café culture
means it is a destination that has something to offer
for everyone.
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Discover your.......
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to send their questions in for Sue to answer at [email protected]
Sue also offers private readings on a one to one basis, workshops, courses and much more,
please visit her website:
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Healing trees
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It is not just the weird and the wacky amongst us
who find a deep solace amongst forests, woods
and trees, Bedford has a host of ancient willows,
black poplars and silver birches, which are known
for their healing qualities for those who are able
or willing to take advantage of this wealth.
Along the river path from Bedford to Kempston
are avenues of tall crack willows, so named
because in wind and heavy rain the branches can
be heavy and send an ear splitting C-C-C-rackkkk !
of warning before falling into the river below.
(This is the way they propagate themselves, with
the fallen branches floating along to mud banks
on rivers, and then setting down roots. ) A form of
Aspirin is derived from the under bark of willows.
On Spring days if you can settle yourself with
your back to the tree trunk you can feel the
energy rising, and filling you with peace and
strength, as you sit there. It takes only a few
minutes of this peace to settle anxious minds, and
give new strength and hope.
The black poplar is again along the banks of the
river Ouse, its well spaced branches look like
arms reaching into the sky, next to other trees it is
very much a giant!
In late April it floods the air with tiny airy silver
tendrils, which cover the water like smoke, with
the heavy beautiful scent of the red caterpillar
like catkins driving away all thoughts of sorrow or
worry, as they sway high above the river paths.
The silver birch has long been associated with the
control of mental health, due to it’s silvery bark
and it’s shining state under a full moon. Hugging
this tree is thought to be beneficial for people
who suffer from depression. You do not have to
look far to see that there are many such trees in
town centres all over Bedfordshire, all would
welcome you with open branches.
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Meditation for those who don’t do ‘meditation’
Busy lives and noisy lives full of bustle, hurry and
anxiety are the normal way of life for most people
in today’s Britain.
Long gone are long distance walks to work, and
home again, or daily sojourns to a store for daily
food.
Now we buy in bulk, we eat in bulk, we sit in front
of the television and ‘entertain ’ourselves in bulk.
Everything in today’s world is too much, too quick
and too invasive, and we have forgotten that taking
time with things, and being deliberate with things,
was once the only way. No one expects us to go
back to being hunter gatherers, but there are many
other things which you can do which can be stress
reducing rather than stress promoting. Personally
I love untangling things, like wool or string or
necklace chains, and losing myself while my hands
move without thought to untie knot after knot ,
with each one untied bringing more peace of mind;
once jigsaws, and knitting used to have the same
effect.
How long since you’ve mended something that
was broken - perhaps into many pieces - just to
have the satisfaction of fixing it. Some children
now will never have had to mend, and are too used
to just buying new and binning old things,
contributing to the throwaway society which we
all distain.
I have a friend who takes old watches to pieces,
and makes pictures out of the parts, and another
who repairs watches for people who cannot be
troubled to take them to a watchmaker; both are
very laid back people.
Perhaps putting a life together out of fragments of
hurt is also worthwhile, if taken bit by bit, and
instead of throwing away friendships or
relationships when things get too hard, look at
what you are left with after troubles and building
up little piece by little piece, into a semblance of
normality - to make life more easily liveable is the
better way. We should perhaps learn from our
forbears about what is really important to us all.
But don’t just stamp on a Rolex in a fit of pique,
just try putting it back together!!!
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Wed 28th MarchSandy and District Horticultural Association 7.30pm
David Fowler (a Bedford Town Guide) is giving a talk
featuring the story of 'Laxtons in Bedford and Sandy’.
A meal is available afterwards which needs to be pre-
booked with Tony Munns on 01767 691055. New
members and visitors are always very welcome.
Sun 1st AprilEaster Egg Hunt St John’s Hospice, Moggerhanger
An afternoon of fun for Easter this year. An egg hunt,
stalls, raffle, games, cake decorating, mask decorating
and face painting. A chocolate Easter egg for each entry
and a chance to win a special prize! Adults can also have
fun with the egg hunt and other activities with the
children, or relax and have a tea/coffee and cake and
browse the stalls.
£3 for children and £1 for adults. The £3 entry fee
includes the egg hunt and a chocolate easter egg
For further details contact Lauren Hasdell on 01767
641044
Sun 1st AprilSteaming Open Day 10.30am – 5.30pm
A full size steam train will offer unlimited rides, Rides
on the miniature railway at small extra charge. The
Centres large collection and museums will be open.
www.bucksrailcentre.org
Adult £10.00 Senior £9.00 Child £7.00 Family £27.00
Buckinghamshire Railway Centre ,Quainton Road
Station ,Quainton, Aylesbury
Tues 3rd AprilJunior - Easter Cupcakes
Coromel Cakes are running a Junior Cupcake Workshop
where you can create something special under our
expert guidance, to take home or give to a loved one. All
materials and equipment are supplied. All you need to
bring is an apron and a smile. Workshops cater for all
abilities and ages from 8 to 16. All of our workshops can
be found and booked through our website.
10am -12pm £20
01234 294338
Coromel cakes Workshop, 2 Church Road, Wootton
Bedfordshire MK43 9EU
Tues 3rd – Sun 8th AprilJoseph and the Amazing Technicolour Dreamcoat
Milton Keynes Theatre
Having enjoyed sensational reviews, Bill Kenwright's
'Amazing', 'Superb', 'Wonderful' and 'Brilliant'
production of Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber's
sparkling family musical continues to enjoy huge
success across the country with standing ovations at
every performance.
www.atgtickets/milton keynes
0844 871 7652
Tues 3rd – Fri 13th AprilExtra-usual Easter egg hunt at The Roald Dahl Museum
and Story Centre
For all ages: throughout the Easter Holidays join us on
an Easter egg hunt around the Museum. Find all the
eggs to earn a chocolate treat.
01494 892192.
81-83 High Street, Great Missenden, Buckinghamshire,
HP16 0AL
Sun 8th – Mon 9th AprilEaster Trail, The Forest Centre & Milennium Country
Park, Marston Moretaine
Follow the trail and look for clues to answer the
questions on the wildlife quiz. When you are finished,
head back to the Forest Centre to check your answers
and collect your prize. No booking required, just turn
up!
11am - 4pm £2 per child
Sat 14th – Sun 15th AprilWest Anglia Country Show
The Showground, Wood Green Animal Shelter,
Godmanchester, Cambridgeshire, PE29 2NH
Thur 19th AprilThe Inn at Woburn
A 2 course luncheon with a glass of wine and fruit
punch on arrival with guest speaker Elaine Boddy from
Green and Brown, a renowed local image consultant and
personal shopper in and around Milton Keynes
£25.95
Thur 19th AprilRSPB A.R.A. Social Club, Manton Lane, Bedford 7.30pm
01234 822035
www.rspb.org.uk/groups/bedford
Fri 20th April Frock Swap and Evening Sale
Emmaus Village, Carlton
7pm to 10pm
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If you have an event you would like us to mention please email [email protected]
Sat 21st AprilWedding Fayre – 11am to 4pm
The French Partridge, Horton, Northampton, NN7 2AP
Visit the wedding Fayre at this luxury boutique hotel
01604 870033
www. Frenchpartridge.co.uk
Sat 21st – Sun 22nd AprilThe East of England Food Festival at Knebworth House.
As well as all of the fantastic stands, we have a full
demo programme including Hector Bunting, our very
own Chef/Compere and all round foodie champion, as
well as the chefs from local restaurants - all cooking up
a storm, together with other demonstrations. To
complement all of this gastronomic delight, we also
have wine and beer tasting sessions.
Sun 22nd AprilOpen Garden Howbury Hall
1.30pm -5pm
£4, teas available, plant stall
All profits to British Red Cross
Sun 22nd AprilThe Manor House, Stevington - Open Garden for NGS.
A modern 4 acre country garden with unusual twists,
designed and cared for by owners Simon and Kathy
Brown. Tulips and other bulbs bring fantastic colour to
the cottage garden, the formal parterres and herbaceous
borders. Major container displays, blossoms in the
orchard and elsewhere, plus extensive naturalistic
planting schemes offer further delights.
Admission £4.50, Children free
12pm – 5pm.
:01234 822064
Sun 22nd AprilRhod Gilbert: The Man with the Flaming Battenberg
Tattoo
Milton Keynes Theatre
Rhod's stand-up rants on life's minor irritations are
legendary, but this year, he's a more mellow fellow
altogether. He's now so laid-back he even let someone
tattoo a Battenberg on him. Will the new, chilled-out
Rhod get his girl and live happily ever after, or will it be
microwaved baked potato for one again? Could it be the
Mr Angry of comedy as you've never seen him before?...
www.atgtickets/milton keynes
0844 871 7652
Sat 28th AprilThe Mansion House, Duathlon
This duathlon event combines running and cycling
within the beautiful parkland estate of The Mansion
House. The event will be held in support of the Dame
Kelly Holmes Legacy Trust and is suitable for a range of
abilities.
www.onestepbeyond.org.uk
Sat 28th AprilTable Top Sale for St James School Parent Staff
Association
Biddenham Village Hall, 2pm to 5pm
Seller Tables are £7 and must be booked in advance as
space is limited
Buyers admission free. Refreshments available
Contact Rachel on 07970 869402 or
Sun 29th AprilOpen Garden, Shortmead House, Biggleswade
1.30-5pm
£4, teas available, plant stall
All profits to British Red Cross
Sat 5th – Mon 7th MayLocal Beer, Food and Talent festival
The White Horse, Newnham Ave, Bedford
We are having music and dance outside in the car park
for all 3 days, a BBQ and we fill the garden with stalls
(charity and otherwise).
Tues 22nd MayPiano Recital, Bedford School Recital Hall 7.30pm
Mario Mora Saiz - Royal Academy of Music.
Tickets £8/£4 students
Central Box Office 01234-269519/Heather Turnham
07774-17-33-44
Last Month’s Competition Winners:‘Breakfast’ - Rebecca Vernon, Sandy,
Polly Anderson, Kempston
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