9Habits To Become

The Winner!!!From Life of Paul J. Meyer

Paul J. Meyer is more than a leader;he is an achiever and a winner.

He believes whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely

believe and enthusiastically act upon must inevitably come to pass.And for more than five decades, by

spreading this message he has inspired millions of people around

the world to become winners inevery facet of their lives.

“When people think of themselves assuccessful, they succeed. When you believe in yourself, others tend to

believe in you. When they see your self-confidence and positive expectancy about your goals, they believe in you

and begin to accept your ideas.”

What doesit Takes toBecome aWinner???

Successful people think like winners. They approach life with a confident expectation thatthey can solve any problem that arises, turn any situation into a positive advantage and achieve any goal that is important to their success.

Habit # 1 : Think like winners

“Winners share some general attitudes that are

basic to success for anyoneand essential for gaining

the winning edge.”

When we point our attitude toward positive results, the results are positive. Paul says, “When youconcentrate on the positives in your life, you stir up the desire to get moving, to seize the day, totake action, to conquer every adversity that jeopardizes well-being or prosperity.”  

Habit # 2 : Think Positively

“Winners habitually face the work of the day with the purpose of discovering what can be done instead of worrying about what cannot be done. When winners

encounter roadblocks, they draw instantly on their positive attitude and determine quickly how to react constructively.”

Every Mistakes should teach a lesson to us, doing the same mistake again is very bad like anything! So don’t take your mistakes as deviation! Take your mistakes as direction! Mistakes are part of lifeand the successful people must know how to make the most of them, accept them and learn from them to progress and still achieve!

Habit # 3 : Learn From Mistakes

“Winners never make excuses; they acknowledgetheir mistakes or failures

and learn from them.”

Anything is possible as long as you set a goal, have a winner’s attitude, and apply discipline and a willingness to work. Paul says, “I put down my goal in writing, listed the obstacles and roadblocksand then it was about finding a way around them. I was over 50 years of age at the time, but that’s what I was willing to do to learn. It’s what I had to do to be a champion and to be the best.”

Habit # 4 : Pay the Price of Success

“Winners do not expect to get something for nothing. Winners

are willing to give the time, effort, creativity and money necessary to achieve their

purposes. They know that any success worth having carries

a high price tag and they gladly accept the opportunity to invest

in their own success.”

Acknowledging that you are solely responsible for the choices in your life. Accepting that you areresponsible for what you choose to feel or think. You choose the direction for your life. You cannotblame others for the choices you have made.

Habit # 5 : Accept Responsibility

“Winners exercise initiative; they do what is needed

because they are personallyresponsible. Winners carry

out their responsibility to beand to do their best.”

Our creative ability lies in the development of our mind is and how it is focused to direct what wefeel, and whether or not we are willing to follow our intuitive guidance to act. Paul says. “I have ano-limitations belief in my creator, a no-limitations belief in myself, a no-limitations belief in other people and a no-limitations belief in what we can do together. Every day is that way for me.”

Habit # 6 : Use Creative Abilities

“Winners cultivate their creativity, trust it and exercise it. Creativity springs from self-acceptance, self-

knowledge, and the courage to developand practice one’s unique talents.”

Paul set a goal to be successful selling life insurance. If there were obstacles, he would go over them. If there was a wall, he was going to go through it. He says, “If I heard a no, it didn’t make any difference to me. I had the same healthy self-image when I called on the first insurance company that I did on the 57th one, even with 55 rejections in between.”

Habit # 7 : Persist and Persevere

“The phrase give up is not in the vocabulary of winners. When winners choose a goal,their commitment to achieving it is firm and steadfast. When winners are confronted

with hurdles or run into stumbling blocks, they go over them or turn them into stepping stones. Winners pursue their goals persistently until they succeed.”

Although the color of Paul’s hair may give a hint to his age, his daily regimen doesn’t show it. Hestill lives every day with the same passion and desire he had as a young man. And he shows nosign of stopping. To celebrate his 70th birthday, Paul climbed Mt. Elbert, the tallest of Colorado’s 14 highest peaks and the second-tallest mountain in the continental United States.

Habit # 8 : Still Persisting and Persevering

“Quitters never win and winners never quit”.

The success in life is not part of some magic formula but about having the right attitude in life. Paul says, "I have an I will-not-be-denied attitude. And that’s an incredible thing to have. I don’t look to my weakness; I look to my strength. I don’t look to my problems; I look to my power. It’s all about attitude."

Habit # 9 : Attitude is Everything

“When you’re down at the bottom, Attitude is Everything.So it doesn’t matter where youare or what you’re doing, it all

has to do with attitude.”

The material Paul teaches comes from his true life experiences. Paul has lived it. Now 80, he is still dreaming, planning, climbing and achieving. He sets records then breaks them. He sees potentialand possibilities the average person doesn’t believe possible or overlooks. You cannot question whether he knows what he is talking about; you only need look at his life for testimony.

“Construct your Determination with Sustained Effort, Controlled Attention,

and Concentrated Energy. Opportunitiesnever come to those who wait... they arecaptured by those who dare to attack!!!”

Thank You Very MuchSompong Yusoontorn