.

Mary, Queen of Heaven of Elmhurst , I l l inois ▲ May 8, 2009 Page 1

Worship Schedule

Weekend Masses Saturday 4:30 p.m. Sunday 8:30 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. Weekday Schedule Mon., Tues., Wed., and Thurs.: Mass Fri.: Communion Service First Friday of the month: Mass All at 8:30 a.m.

Rosary Devotion Monday through Friday: 8:00 AM

Sacraments Reconciliation - Saturday 3:30 p.m.

Baptism 1st and 3rd Sundays of the month at 2:00 p.m. Baptismal preparation is required. Baptismal prep takes place on the 2nd Tues. of the month at 7:30 pm. Please call Deacon Tom Nolan to register.

Marriage Please contact the Pastor 6 months in advance.

Parish Office Hours Mon.-Fri.:9:00am-4:00pm

Pastoral Staff

Rev. Anthony R. Taschetta Pastor Rev. John Barrett Pastor Emeritus Deacon Tom Nolan (630) 279-5700 Baptismal Coordinator Sr. Marlene Geimer, SLW (630) 279-5700 Julie Blaszak Office Managers Mary Ann Woods (630) 832-8962 Director, Religious Education Ms. Brenda Scanlon (630) 833-9500 Preschool Director Ed Nowak (708) 246-0868 musicdirector@maryqueen.org Music Director Mimi Wolak (630) 941-3851 RCIA/Bereavement Marta Gamboa (630) 279-5700 mqhbulletin@maryqueen.org Bulletin Editor Website

MARY QUEEN OF HEAVEN CHURCH 426 N WEST AVE, ELMHURST IL 60126-2128

PHONE: 630-279-5700 FAX: 630-279-4667

EMAIL: PARISHOFFICE@MARYQUEEN.ORG WEBSITE: HTTP://WWW.MARYQUEEN.ORG

June 19, 2011

Most Holy

Trinity

.

Page 2 Welcome to Mary Queen of Heaven of Elmhurst , I l l inois ▲ June 19, 2011

Note from the Pastor

BLESSED FATHER’S DAY (FROM THE ARCHIVES)

...And the tall, handsome young man looked into the eyes of his princess and asked,

"May I have this dance?" To which the princess squealed and giggled with delight, "Sure, Daddy!" And the dance began. Of all the paintings in the world, none are more famous or prolific than that of the Madonna and child, the Mother and her Son. By comparison, you can hardly name a famous portrait of a father and daughter and yet I dare to say that the Father/Daughter relationship is as easily important and in some ways more important than the Father/Son or Mother/Daughter relationship. I will go so far as to say that it is almost impossible for a little girl to reach healthy psycho-sexual-spiritual maturity without the presence of a father or at least a father figure. It's that important. Several weeks ago, Kathy and Judy on their radio talk show were talking about the Daddy/Daughter relationship. They were wondering out loud why little girls who had fathers involved in their lives seemed to be so much more healthy and secure in adulthood than little girls who did not. I raised my hand and announced to the radio speaker, "I know the answer to that one." I knew the answer because for the past several years I have been observing a father raise his little daughter. I have been watching very closely and with great interest my son Luis, father his daughter Azucena. And it has been a wonder to behold. In case you haven't noticed, Mommies and Daddies are different. Not only are they physically different, but they are psychologically and even spiritually different. Because of the way they were raised, because of their emotional makeup, they see the world through different sets of eyes. And it is a known fact that one cannot see the world with any depth with just one eye, you need them both. And so do children. Mothers and Fathers have very different roles in the raising of children and both are essential. Mothers are unconditional love. The closest love to God's love is a Mother's. Mommy loves us when we are good, mommy loves us when we are bad. Mommy loves us, period. It is a love without strings, it is a love without condition and it is a love that is absolutely necessary for a child to grow and thrive. The upside of that kind of love is that it never says, "No." The downside is that it never says, "No." And that's were Daddy's love comes in. Fathers love their children without condition as well, but by their nature and by their psyche they are concerned with boundaries. For a woman all things and people are important. For men there are hierarchies. For a woman all are welcome. For man there are lines of

demarcation, right and wrong, yes and no, and sometimes black and white. This may not be a great place to finish life, but it is a wonderful place to start. And it gives children a tremendous sense of security. If they know the parameters of life, within the circle they are free. Outside the circle, they are out of bounds, in trouble. To teach this is the sacred job of the father. When Azucena was a toddler, her job was to stretch the limits of her world and push her boundaries as far out as she could. Nothing is more ironclad than the will of a two year-old (they don't call them the terrible twos for nothing). And sometimes, no matter how hard Momma tries, they just don't listen. And so it was with Azucena...until Daddy got home. Now, I have watched the scene a hundred times and still find it a marvel to behold. The two year-old begins to cross a line of behavior, an inappropriate action for a two year-old and Daddy takes her gently in his arms and says to her, "Azucena, no." She doesn't want to hear this but Daddy won't let her go, "I said, no." And then the lip starts to quiver and the tears start to form, and she wants to rebel but she knows that she can't because this isn't Mommy’s energy that's coming out, this is Daddy energy and it is strong and just as ironclad as hers. And he is going to win. And so is she because in a short time she collapses into his arms knowing the security of being surrounded by the boundaries of love. And that's what Daddies do best. (By the way, this works for little boys, too. Just ask her little brother Abraham.) Now, what this little girl is learning in the arms of her father will last her forever. Several years ago, I had a young woman in my office who was coming off her fifth or sixth failed relationship. She told me there was no father in her life and every time a young man told her he loved her, she hopped into bed with him hoping that he could give her what she desperately needed from her father...security, respect, dignity and love. The shame was, that the boys whose arms she continually ran into were never fathered themselves. They too did not know the meaning of the word, "no". She was desperate for a way out of her dilemma and knew that if something didn't change she would repeat the cycle all over again. I encouraged her to find a father. "I'm twenty-six years old. My father has been out of my life all of my life." "Then find another one," I encouraged her. "It's never too late". And it isn't. It's never too late to be fathered. Whatever we missed in childhood, we can pick up as an adult. Oh, it's a lot harder, and it takes a lot longer but it can be done. The problem is finding the right father. But they are there. Actually, they are here. Oh, how I would love to have a cadre of fathers who could father the fatherless boys and girls all around us. There is no wound more severe than the father wound and there is no salve more effective than the salvation that comes from the Father.

(continues on page 2)

.

Mary Queen of Heaven of Elmhurst , I l l inois ▲ June 19, 2011 Page 3

Parish News

Note from the Pastor (cont.)

Three weeks ago I walked into our Ministry Center and my heart was overjoyed. There before me was a whole house full of fathers and daughters. With their very best dresses and their hair all coiffured, the little girls knew what it meant to be a real lady for they were escorted in the arms of real men, their daddies. God bless these daddies! God bless their unconditional love, God bless their sacred no. God bless their willingness to be with and father their daughters. There is no greater sacred duty and nothing more important than dancing with their daughters. Here they surround them with the security of their own loving arms and protect them in the boundaries of that love. It is said that God the Father is the dancer and we are the dance. The dance cannot be separated from or exist from the dancer or neither could or should little girls be separated from their daddies. May I have this dance?

In Jesus, the Son of the Father and the Father of us all,

JUNE 26, 2011

FEAST OF CORPUS CHRISTI EUCHARISTIC PROCESSION

REMINDER We will begin by meeting at the Elmhurst College Mall starting at 1:00 pm with music

and an opportunity to meet our Elmhurst Catholic neighbors. At 1:30 pm Father Tony will initiate the procession by saying a few words. There will be two additional “stations” where we will stop along the route for a few minutes and a short prayer. The last station will end at Immaculate Conception Church for benediction. Please bring the family for this spe-cial event to publically acknowledge our belief in the real presence in the Eucharist. See you there!!

CALENDAR OF EVENTS JUNE 19 - JUNE 26

Sunday, June 19, 2011 - Father’s Day 8:30 AM & 10:30 AM MQH Mass 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Baptisms in Church

Monday, June 20, 2011 8:30 AM MQH Mass 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM CRHP (Men) in Social Hall 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Commission Meeting in Barrett Hall

Tuesday, June 21, 2011 8:30 AM MQH Mass

Wednesday, June 22, 2011 8:30 AM MQH Mass

Thursday, June 23, 2011 8:30 AM MQH Mass Friday, June 24, 2011 DEADLINE BULLETIN ARTICLES JULY 3 8:30 AM Communion Service

Saturday, June 25, 2011 3:30 PM Confessions 4:30 PM MQH Mass

Sunday, June 26, 2011 8:30 AM & 10:30 AM MQH Mass 1:00 PM - 5:00 PM Feast of Corpus Christi Eucharist Procession starting at Elmhurst College

WEEKLY DEADLINE FOR BULLETIN IS FRIDAY AT NOON

Parish News

CLARIFICATION! There was some confusion regarding attendance of Alex Grozik's ordination at the Cathedral. Each candidate has a limited number of tickets and Alex's are all promised to people already. Please do join us in celebration here at Mary Queen after the 10:30 am Mass on August 28.

FACILITIES CALENDAR COMMISSION LEADERS &

ORGANIZATIONAL LEADERS

July 1 is the due date for scheduling information for the 2011-2012 Calen-dar year. Have you sent in your dates, time, and place for meetings? Please send in your information before your

favorite days get taken and you end up with a con-flict. We need to know your scheduling needs from July 1, 2011 to June 30, 2012. A calendar request form is included in the bulletin for your convenience as well as on the parish website.

.

Page 4 Mary Queen of Heaven▲June 19, 2011

MARY QUEEN OF HEAVEN PRESCHOOL AND

KINDERGARTEN ENRICHMENT

For information please contact : Ms. Brenda Scanlon, Director

Mary Queen of Heaven Preschool (630) 833-9500 Website: www.maryqueenpresschool.org E-mail: mqhpreschool@maryqueen.org

Religious Education News

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS

RE Registrations. Please note the following classes are closed: Kindergarten and Grade 2 is closed at 3:15 pm. At 5:15 pm Grades 3 and 5 are closed. Right now we ask that you consider home schooling your children if there is no room in your desired session. This option is available in all grades except Gr. 2 and 8, our sacrament years. FYI: registration in the RE program is limited to participating members of Mary Queen Parish. If you are new to the parish, please register in the parish prior to registration in the RE program.

We are in need of catechists for the 2011/2012 RE year. 3:15 pm - Grade 1 – 1 co-catechist Grade 2 – 4 catechists

As reflected above we have a very urgent need for catechists at the second grade level at 3:15 pm. This is the year we prepare the children for the reception of First Communion. This is a very important time in our little one’s lives. If you would be willing to work with our little Communicants or know someone who is able, please let us know. We may have other needs as summer progresses. We will keep you posted. If you have not as yet returned your yellow volunteer form, please do so. We are counting on you. September seems very far away, but it will be here before you know it. If you are someone who loves your Faith and would enjoy sharing it with our children, we would love to talk to you.

For more info on any of the above, please contact Mary Ann Woods at the REO: (630) 832-8962 or

email: mqhmawoods@sbcglobal.net.

Please call (630) 279-5700 to have a name added to our list. A new listing will appear in bold face. Names will remain on the prayer list for four weeks. Contact the parish office to renew the individual’s name on our prayer list.

We hope that you will pray for these persons every day.

Tony Carlevato Kate Graete

Christian Worship

Diocesan News

THEY HAVE MINISTERED TO US FOR MORE THAN 50 YEARS..

Our Diocesan priests have given so much to all of us. Now we can show them how much we care. On this Father’s Day weekend, a second collection will be held during all the Masses for the Diocese of Joliet Priests’ Retirement Fund. This collection helps to strengthen the pension for our retired diocesan priests. Their Social Security checks are not large, and so their pension helps provide for their living expenses. Please help to take care of them like they have taken care of us during their years of ministering. Our generosity is a way to say "Thank You Father".

Parish News

MARK YOUR CALENDARS!!! CHRIST RENEWS HIS PARISH WEEKENDS HAVE BEEN SET!

The next Christ Renews His Parish (CRHP) weekends have been set. The men’s weekend is being held February 11-12, 2012 and the women’s weekend will be February 25-26, 2012.

It’s after football season, after the holidays, and a great preparation for Lent. It’s not as far off as it sounds, so mark your calendars now! If you need any information on either weekend feel free to con-tact Karen Sutkus at 630-279-3240 or by email at ksutkus1@comcast.net.

Mary Queen of Heaven

Schedule of Events Calendar 2011-2012 Revised 06/14/2011

Organization________________________________

Contact Person______________________________

E-mail_____________________________________

Daytime Phone____________________

Cell Phone________________________

Evening Phone____________________

Person requesting space, if not the Contact Person ___________________________________________

Cell #___________________ Phone #___________________ Email_______________________________

All EVENTS needing a set-up MUST submit a SET-UP FORM at least TWO WEEKS in advance.

OR

DO IT NOW an even BETTER CHOICE

Reoccurring meeting dates: (check below) Start Time__________ End Time __________

Location______________________________

Set Up Time_________ Clean-up/Finished Time _____________ INTERVAL WEEK OF MONTH DAY OF WEEK MONTHS

( ) Weekly

( ) Monthly

( ) 1st

( ) 2nd

( ) 3rd

( ) 4th

( ) Sunday

( ) Monday

( ) Tuesday

( ) Wednesday

( ) Thursday

( ) Friday

( ) Saturday

( ) All

( ) January

( ) February

( ) March

( ) April

( ) May

( ) June

( ) July

( ) August

( ) September

( ) October

( ) November

( ) December

Single Event/Meeting A SET-UP FORM must be submitted at least two weeks in advance.

Date Event #1 Set/up

Time

Start

Time

End

Time

Clean/up

Time Space Requested (Church, Social Hall, Barrett

Hall, Classroom, Conference

Rm(max. 8), Common Rm,

Other)

Need

Set-Up?

Yes No

Date Event #2 Set/up

Time

Start

Time

End

Time

Clean/up

Time Space Requested (Church, Social Hall, Barrett

Hall, Classroom, Conference

Rm(max. 8), Common Rm,

Other)

Need

Set-Up?

Yes No

Date Event #3 Set/up

Time

Start

Time

End

Time

Clean/up

Time Space Requested (Church, Social Hall, Barrett

Hall, Classroom, Conference

Rm(max. 8), Common Rm,

Other)

Need

Set-Up?

Yes No

Date Event #4 Set/up

Time

Start

Time

End

Time

Clean/up

Time Space Requested (Church, Social Hall, Barrett

Hall, Classroom, Conference

Rm(max. 8), Common Rm,

Other)

Need

Set-Up?

Yes No

Please return this form to the Parish Office by July 1, 2011.

Scheduling priority will be given to Religious Ed., then space

will be assigned on a first-come, first served basis. If a

conflict occurs, I will contact you.

Please contact the Office at 630-279-5700, Fax 630-279-4667

or by e-mail at facilities@maryqueen.org if you have

questions. This form can be found on our web site.

Other/future requests must be submitted using this form and

set-up forms. DO NOT CALL IN A REQUEST. Come in to

fill out a form.

Set-up Forms are available in the Parish Office and on the

Parish website

OFFICE USE ONLY: Date Submitted________________

Date Entered _____________ Date Confirmed _______________

1

2

Mary Queen of Heaven

426 N West Ave, Elmhurst IL 60126-2128

TELEPHONE 630-279-5700 FAX 630-279-4667

Set-Up Form

Person requesting set-up ___________________________________________________ Page____of_____

Cell # _________________________ Phone# ___________________________ Email______________________________________________

Ministry _______________________________________

Date of Event ________________ Time of Event _____________Set/up needed by:__________________

Office Use ONLY: Date submitted: _____________ Date Sent to Company_______________

Ro

om

(s)

Nee

ded

P

lea

se c

ircl

e

Co

nfe

ren

ce R

oo

m (

max

. 8

peo

ple

)

Bar

rett

Hal

l

Bar

rett

Hal

l K

itch

en

So

cial

Hal

l

So

cial

Hal

l K

itch

en

Sch

oo

l R

m #

__

__

Oth

er:_

__

__

__

__

__

__

__

__

__

__

_

Ta

ble

s L

g.

Ro

un

d :

Ho

w M

any

__

__

Sm

Ro

un

d:

Ho

w M

any

__

__

Rec

tan

gle

6’

: H

ow

Man

y_

__

_

Rec

tan

gle

8’:

Ho

w M

any

__

__

C

ha

irs

Ho

w m

any

?__

__

Au

dit

ori

um

Sty

le Y

N

Eq

uip

men

t N

eed

s P

lea

se c

ircl

e

Po

diu

m

Mic

rop

hon

e S

tan

d

Scr

een

TV

AU

DIO

/VIS

UA

L C

AR

T

in

clu

des

LC

D P

roje

cto

r

VC

R/D

VD

pla

yer

Des

k T

op

Co

mp

ute

r S

yst

em

Wit

h P

ow

er P

oin

t P

rog

ram

Mic

rop

hon

e:

H

an

dh

eld

Use this area

to draw the

placement of

tables/chairs

you are

requesting. If

you want 30

chairs or less

use an “X” to

indicate

placement.

You need

one set-up

form for

each

room/area

you are

using.

.

Mary Queen of Heaven of Elmhurst , I l l inois ▲ June 19, 2011 Page 7

Sunday, June 19, 2011 - Father’s Day 8:30 AM † Albert Fuschen † Robert Cranmer 10:30 AM † Jean and Ralph Gayle

Monday, June 20, 2011 8:30 AM † Maria and John Treiber

Tuesday, June 21, 2011 8:30 AM † Elizabeth Lowrey Wednesday, June 22, 2011 8:30 AM All Parishioners Thursday, June 23, 2011 8:30 AM † Rev. Paul Benson

Friday, June 24, 2011 8:30 AM Communion Service Saturday, June 25, 2011 4:30 PM † Mary Krekelbert

Sunday, June 26, 2011 8:30 AM † Albert and Gloria Kabat 10:30 AM † Fred Cafasso

† indicates person is deceased

MINISTRY SCHEDULE SATURDAY, JUNE 25 - SUNDAY, JUNE 26, 2011

4:30 PM 8:30 AM 10:30 AM

Presider Fr. Tony Fr. Tony Fr. Tony

Lector B. Dunn M. Grozik A. Grozik

E. Cutri

Eucharistic Ministers

G. Los (S) J. Vilim (C) G. Los L. Loresch D. StaRosa M. Zelinski G. Curtis

K. Passarelli (S) M. Kelly (C) N. Williamson T. Nanak T. Sabel G. Pstrzoch M. Grozik

K. Gusloff (S) T. Gusloff (C) K. Mueller M. McCall P. Mason R. Marro R. Melendez P. Twardowski

Altar Servers

J. Alonso N. Simon N. Simon

B. Dunn D. Dunn C. Letourneau

B. Hernandez C. Hernandez I. Weigel

Readings for the Week of June 19, 2011

Sunday: Ex 34:4b-6, 8-9/2 Cor 13:11-13/ Jn 3:16-18 Monday: Gn 12:1-9/Mt 7:1-5 Tuesday: Gn 13:2, 5-18/Mt 7:6, 12-14 Wednesday: Gn 15:1-12, 17-18/Mt 7:15-20 Thursday: Gn 16:1-12, 15-16 or 16:6b-12, 15-16/Mt 7:21-29 Friday: Vigil: Jer 1:4-10/1 Pt 1:8-12/Lk 1:5-17 Day: Is 49:1-6/Acts 13:22-26/ Lk 1:57-66, 80 Saturday: Gn 18:1-15/Mt 8:5-17 Next Sunday: Dt 8:2-3, 14b-16a/ 1 Cor 10:16-17/Jn 6:51-58

Thank you for your continued support!

Collection Totals for: Sunday, June 12, 2011

Adults $6,906.26

Parish Pay $3,077.16

Children $22.24

Collection Total $10,005.66

ANNUAL WEDDING ANNIVERSARY MASS

The Diocese of Joliet will hold its Thirty-third annual Wedding Anniversary Mass on Sunday, September 11, 2011 at 2:00 p.m. at the Cathedral of St. Raymond in Joliet. If you are celebrating either your 25th or 50th anniversary this year, please contact the Rectory at (630) 279-5700 so that we may submit your name to the Diocese for a formal invitation.

Contact www.parishpay.com, or call 866-PARISH-1

for further information.