10 ONLINE DATING TIPS FOR BOOMERS

BY CARYL WESTMORE

Women over 40 - You can Change your Lonely Life with Online Dating

Did you know… 1 in 3 Americans now meet their

spouses online Seniors 50+ are the fastest growing

groups of subscribers for on-line dating (Lehman Brothers Equity Research, 2007)

10 TOP TIPS FROM NEW KINDLE BOOK

Tip #1: Dump the Love Villains

How ?

Become a love detective and track back your worst dates and relationship nightmares … on a timeline

Write a most “Not-Wanted” online dating ad

Learn from your ad what you don’t want in a date or relationship

Love Villains – What you don’t want

You don’t want to repeat old patterns or make the same choices you made in the past

Do the inner clearing work (EFT-Matrix Reimprinting) to BREAK FREE from the negative beliefs and patterns learned in early childhood and your teens that are sabotaging you now

Once you support and release that Younger You, the Adult You will miraculously heal.

Now compare familiar traits from these Love Villains to things you

remember from …

Mother Father Important Care-givers Child hood relationship models

Tip #2: Get Clear Forgive them – and yourself

BOOK A FREE SESSION with Goal Success Love Coach Caryl Westmore to learn how you are unconsciously attracting in Love Villains.

Resolve to get clear of resentment, anger, pain and self-sabotage keeping you lonely and victimised.

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You can heal your broken heart and BREAK-FREE

Hint – Resentment keeps the ties alive

Hint – Own the part you play in allowing Love Villains into your life!

AFFIRMATION

I choose to treat myself with love and respect – and demand the same of Life

and Love….

Love Villains be-gone!

Tip #3 Attract your Love Hero

Law of Attraction Love Secrets

Cosmic ordering – make your list of characteristics for your ideal romantic Love Hero

You will attract whatever you think about, feel and focus your attention on, whether consciously or unconsciously.

Work on yourself to become these ideal characteristics

Tip #4 Heal 6 Top Love Killer Beliefs

These can ruin your chances of love:

1. I’m not good enough to be loved

2. I am not a success in life without the romantic love-of-my-life

3. Love is Scarce

4. Rejection is too painful and must be avoided at all costs

5. Failure means I wasted my love on him (and should give up)

6. I’m too old/fat/poor to attract love midlife

Tip #5Pinpoint what you do want

Make a list of Wants and not-wants in a partner Re-frame and raise your expectations Create a great love future in your heart Picture this future with him already in your life Create your Love Treasure Map.

Tip #6Build a Winning Profile

Before writing your Profile…

Prepare by doing a round of EFT Tapping

Tap in positive empowering words and feelings to boost your self confidence and feelings of self-worth

Have a winning picture

Wow them in 20 seconds! Be brief enough to pique interest. It’s been proven that men look at photos first and then skim the information in your profile.

Tip #7 Choose a PAID Online Dating Site

You may think it’s best to try a free online dating site first – after all, you’ve got nothing to lose, right?

Wrong!

Paid subscription sites are less likely to have creepy or dishonest users. Go with a tried-and-tested site and pay

at least one months’ subscription. Later you can consider a 3 or 6 month investment, which will reduce

your monthly subscription.

Tip #8Expect a Downside but stay Focused

It’s a numbers game - Don’t expect to be successful 100% of the time. You win some…you lose some (or many)

Never give up - Your longing is there for a reason and you must keep going

Don’t take ‘No’ or rejection personally; Move on - Don’t ask yourself what you did

wrong or how you could have done it differently.

Tip #9Commitment

Experts say you need a minimum of three ingredients to make a relationship work in the

long-term …

1. Chemistry,

2. Compatibility

3. Commitment

So spot the warning signs of the man who is a “Commitment-Phobe” and stay far away!

But make sure it’s not YOU who is scared to commit and thus putting out bad vibes!

Tip #10: Checklist for a serious relationship

Look for…

Commitment to personal growth

Commitment to me, and our

relationship Emotional openness and communication Integrity Maturity and financial stability High self esteem Positive attitude towards life Good sexual chemistry Harmonious soul mate vibe

A Happy EndingBoomers Caryl & Nick Westmore met online and married in 2007

Let Caryl help you attract YOUR LOVE HERO

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