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BABY STEPS1. Be nice to everyone for one whole day. No bullying, gossiping,

ignoring, excluding, hitting, scoffing, criticizing, sneering, sulking,snickering, or backbiting allowed. Sign your name and date onlyafter you do it perfectly.

Signature____________________________

Date________________________________

2. In the center of the diagram, write down your life center. Consider thefollowing possible centers: friends, school, popularity, work, fun, sports,hobbies, enemies, heroes, self, boyfriend, girlfriend, parents, faith, orsomething else. Consider the impact of that center on your life.

3. Write down a deposit you can make into one of your friends RBA.

Friend: __________________________________________________________

Deposit I can make:_______________________________________________

4. What are the top three things you could change that would make you amore likable friend?

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5. Is there someone whos been trying to break into your group of friends?If so, open your heart and let them in.

Person trying to break in:_________________________

What I can do to open my heart: __________________

6. Memorize the quote by George Eliot, What do we live for if it is not tomake life less difficult to each other?

7. Think of a friend who may have offended you recently. Sometime thisweek, shock them by treating unkindness with kindness.

8. If theres someone you constantly find yourself competing

with or comparing yourself to, tap your heels together threetimes while repeating aloud: I will stop competing with andcomparing myself to______________________________

9. Do you have a friend or group of friends that are bringingyou down? If so, figure out how you can exit the relationshipor group.

My exit plan: ___________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________10. Make a list of five things you would be willing to stand up and fight for

in the face of peer pressure:

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